<p>My own counselor I’ve been mostly happy with. What I mainly don’t agree with is the way our school assigns counselors. With 1950 students, (-480 per grade) we have four counselors. Each counselor is assigned to one year and follow them through high school. I think that’s entirely unfair and illogical way of distributing the workload. It’s a nice idea to have one counselor that a student can “get-to-know,” but why not assign a counselor a portion of students from each grade level? Of course all of our counselors are busy, but having the extra burden of college apps every four years just causes problems with getting stuff out before the deadline.</p>
<p>The only major problem I have with my counselor is he rarely listens to the person speaking to him. He’s the sort of person who zones out of what someone is saying because he’s focused on what he thinks needs to be done. When I try to explain why something would be unacceptable, he nods then tells me what he is going to do, which exactly what he was going to do before I said anything. It takes a very long time to get a point across.</p>
<p>For example, I gave him a form for a college which had to be filled out by the counselor and sent in with a transcript, on Tuesday, and told him it needed to be sent out by the end of the week (no recommendation, just data I probably could have entered myself, but that’s not allowed). I come to him on Friday to make sure he’s sent it out. He tells me it is in his pile of stuff-to-do and it will be out on Thursday (Nov. 15). I repeat it needs to be out today. He agrees to do it (if he didn’t know me so well, I doubt he would have done it). I get called in the his office at the end of the day and he gives it to me and says it wasn’t a big deal because this college was due on the 15th. I told him its due by the 15th, received and processed, not postmarked (which I told him originally). He said “oh,” and told me he could mail it on his way home (since the mail from our school had already gone out), I told him I would mail it. There is no way I would trust him to remember.</p>
<p>The only problem I’ve had, as illustrated above, is he’s somewhat dense when students try to speak with him (I’ve had a number of experiences) and not very organized. He is also a little too quick to offer advice when he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. (For example, when I first gave him the form he told me the school would send him an electric form to fill out once I sent in my application. I knew for a fact this was not true and told him. He told me to do something with certainty based on a guess he had on what most colleges do. Its not a good habit to be in when dealing with strict application deadline and policies).</p>
<p>That being said, he’s a genuinely nice person who does want to help students. His college advice would probably consist of local colleges and the state flagship, and I don’t expect anything else of him. The counseling center has some books which show good colleges around the US for whatever degree/career you’re looking for. Nobody at my school expects the counselors to be there for career guidance or college advice besides the basic starting-off points. </p>
<p>I think ‘bright students’ should be bright enough to take control of research and deadline managing for themselves. Our counselors have larger concerns than just college-admissions. Yes, it’d be nice if I didn’t feel like I had to check-up on my counselor to make sure required forms get in, but as long as he’s not being unreasonably stubborn (like some other posters have described), I think of it as my responsibility.</p>
<p>TL;DR
I don’t expect school counselors to know much about colleges beyond how to fill out a required form.</p>