<p>I want to visit my girlfriend who stays in stern. I wanted to stay over during the weekends once in a while. Would that be okay with the R.A? What are the rules for men staying in Stern and if so are we allowed to use the bathrooms and stuff too?</p>
<p>RAs don’t care at all unless you’re loud and/or smoking pot. Your GF’s roommate(s) may, though. Stern has the exact same rules as all the other dorms except dudes have to say “man entering” when entering unisex bathrooms, but it’s not enforced at all.</p>
<p>Thanks for the help. My gf’s roommate is actually a long time friend of hers and she is okay with it. I can’t wait to play the baby grand for a bit hopefully they won’t mind ( :</p>