<p>I think some of the responses from the parents on this thread are absolutely atrocious. GA2012MOM your posts are hardly constructive. 'rentof2’s hardly are either. There are enough ■■■■■■ and smart***es on CC you don’t need to exacerbate the issue. Your comments aren’t constructive when 1. they consist of sarcasm or write-off the complaint – usually the complaint comes up because it has already been written-off, 2. they deliberately misinterpret posts and 3. they don’t post viable solutions to the issue.</p>
<p>“Maybe you should blame your fellow swimmers for deceiving you during your recruitment.” – Your logic is faulty. I’m guessing that you didn’t go to Amherst. The swimmers did, however, take him there. Schools (admissions, students, tour guides,…) spin their flaws to get people to attend. Is spin a good thing? Nope. But it happens so don’t act like this is some egregious outlier and the swimmers deceived an unknowing spec by not having them try the school’s food. I hope you give your children better replies than this. Hopefully you at least give them advice that’s on topic and actually speaks to their problem.</p>
<p>“Have you ever considered the people who work in Val may have developed their own negative attitudes about the students who are living such privileged lives that bad cafeteria food is the big problem of their day?” – They’re getting paid to do their job. You’re just there trying to get your broccoli and they’re muttering rudely under their breath (the case at my LAC). Not every student acts like a jerk and warrants rude behavior. Workers get paid to do their job and they should maybe even take a little bit of pride in what they do. Also, you can’t assume that everyone there is some rich, privileged jerk. Kids are on financial aid, questbridge, scholarships. They’re working hard at Amherst and the school recruits some of the brightest, hard-working kids in the country. Don’t act like they’re all stupid teenagers complaining for the hell of it because they didn’t get their filet mignon cooked the way they wanted.</p>
<p>“I don’t think it would be possible for anybody to get the whole picture of ANY school prior to attending.” – Trying to justify paying 50k a year, are we? This isn’t College Censorship, this is College Confidential. You don’t have to write everything off. Someone’s trying to give their opinion on something at a school so that incoming students do get a better picture. As manarius pointed out. This is why I started reading CC as a student – because I wanted to get opinions from real students, not read sarcastic comments from rude parents who are writing off every complaint they see. Is every complaint warranted? No. Doesn’t mean that a problem isn’t there.</p>
<p>“Quite the super sleuth! Note to self, call Facebook and have Farmville blocked from dining hall so OP can have pepperoni pizza.” – So you think she should be getting paid to play Farmville? During mealtime they should probably be serving meals. What if your daughter couldn’t get her food in time before a class because a worker was playing on Facebook? She can play Farmville off the clock. I’m guessing you play a lot of Farmville on the job and are simply commiserating with this anonymous dining services worker.</p>
<p>This is more a comment on how these parents prefer to undermine issues and believe that they don’t exist. I hope you’re not this derogatory to your kids’ friends. If your daughter or son started complaining that someone is playing on Facebook instead of serving them some food, and then is gonna go play a sport for 2 hours on an empty stomach, what would you tell them? To go cook up something in her kitchen? To go spend their money that might earn from work-study or tour guiding (idk if guides at AC get paid) on food? Most students need that to pay for their tuition. Might as well save yourself money on the meal plan.</p>
<p>That being said, I don’t even go to Amherst. But the comments made by parents on this thread were so astounding to me that I had to reply. I do go to an LAC with food of varying, questionable quality – but nothing like this. Even if what the people arguing in FAVOR of Val are saying is true, I’m really glad I’m not eating there. Dining Services at my school, well, the people behind the scenes are awesome. The people who serve the food are 90% downright mean. I’ve been snapped at for no reason, had food taken away as I was about to grab some after a 2 hour practice, well within the dining hall’s office hours; it’s not fun. I didn’t spit on them, I didn’t curse at them, I didn’t complain about how my lasagna was cooked. Don’t act like rude people don’t exist and it’s all the students’ fault.</p>
<p>As a note on actually SOLVING the issue.</p>
<p>Saying that there are off-campus dining or “cheap” take-out options are the most inane suggestions one could possible make. If a student is being driven off-campus to get food then don’t you think that indicates that there’s problem? Second, I don’t know how much money you have to spend as a college student, or when you were a college student, but take-out is expensive and is not a viable option every night. Neither is going to eat off-campus. Sure, if you want to subsist and spend a lot of money, those options work – but in the end, when you’re rushing from class, to practice, to a club meeting, to a lecture, on a limited budget and you’re already paying for a meal plan, you just want to stop and get some food.</p>
<p>Dining Committee and learning to make the best of the options available were the best solutions actually presented in this 4-page thread. I think making the best out of a situation is something that’s really important to learn – if college students want to change the world they could probably endeavor to make some changes in terms of food services. (Note, I’m not disregarding whatever problem there might be – I’m saying that students should be proactive in fixing it. I didn’t tell them to eat somewhere else, cook for themselves, or try to contact Facebook to get a game blocked at their school.)</p>