<p>Thesbo,
Yep, it's true that there are no perfect schools. But, there aren't any perfect students either. At this stage in your search I think it's good to learn as much as possible from websites and other people's impressions. However, as you've said, websites put on their rosiest faces and other people's impressions may not be the same as your own. </p>
<p>My own darling D got a report from a theatre class buddy regarding her visit to U. Michigan. The friend was planning to major in drama and my D in MT. D's friend came back home with a very negative report. She did not seem to like anything about the campus. She seemed to get the impression that U.M spent lots of money on other programs, but the drama program was treated like Cinderella. She had a lengthy chat with a girl from a city near us who'd gone to U.M. only because it was the school farthest from her parents! She told my D's friend that she'd made a huge mistake because she hated the drama program and she hated the weather. I'm sure her comments added to the friend's negative impression. My D was surprised and rather dismayed by her friend's comments. U.M. had been at the top of her list. I could tell that her friend's comments were having an effect. When we visited the campus a few weeks later, my D fell in love with the place. She said it was hard to believe that she and her friend had seen the same school. I think my D learned from that experience that she needed to see for herself and not trust other people's opinions too much. We visited another school the same week. That particular school is highly touted for both drama and MT and it was my D's number one choice. After visiting and seeing two productions, she knew it was not for her. We felt that the school's reputation was inflated based on what we observed. (Another family from our hometown visited three days later and had the same impression.)</p>
<p>I think that you can learn a lot from a visit. You will soon find out what size campus or what size program is appealing. You can tell something about the caliber of a school's program from seeing a production. You can pick up on that mysterious thing I call atmosphere by talking to students and sitting in on classes. I know you've had many theatre classes during H.S. You'll know when you observe a drama class whether or not you would work well with a particular instructor. After a few campus visits (some of which were audition trips) my D had a pretty good idea which schools were appealing and which were not. She did make second visits to the final two schools on her list to make her decision. At that time she observed as many classes as she could squeeze in at both schools. She took private voice lessons at both and talked to current students. She felt comfortable in the end that she had made the right choice. Have faith that the pieces will fall into place for you too.</p>