<p>Good Luck. Many years ago I left high school after 3 years to matriculate full time at a top regional LAC. Back then there were few AP classes, and no dual enrollment. It was considered “early admission,” and my college year counted toward the remaining HS credits I needed. My HS diploma was awarded after my freshman year. There was no internet, no taking college courses online. Students applied to 3-4 schools, not 15-20, and Ivy league was not a consideration for many of us who lived over 1000 miles away. Besides, we could not afford it and were not savvy enough to understand the nuances of financial aid. I had a guidance counselor who knew me, know my maturity level, and knew I belonged in college. I had taken the toughest classes that were available to me, played in the band, and worked at McDonalds 20 hours a week. </p>
<p>I left and never looked back. I was ready, and I flourished. I also worked during my freshman year (JC PENNEY), although was able to get enough merit and financial aid and tutoring work-study after that year to not hold an outside job, except home during Christmas, Spring Break and Summer. </p>
<p>I still exchange Christmas cards with my undergrad advisor/Biochem teacher. I spent three years in college and then off to med school at flagship State U. You just couldn’t hold me down.</p>
<p>I was bored if not totally immersed. For me it was what I needed and wanted. I did not miss going to Prom only once. I did not miss being a senior. The only regret I had was not being able to give a speech at HS graduation, but that lasted about 30 min. I lost that regret totally during a surprise award at college graduation, and my parents saw that in my smile, as I went to them and hugged them on my way up to the podium.</p>
<p>Some students need to have a level of challenge that their current school cannot provide. Those that are mature enough can handle “the older” kids. I had no problem being 17 at college and 20 at med school. The drinking age was 18 then, even scarier now that you think of it. But I had my priorities.</p>
<p>Listen to your student. If they wast to stay at HS for four years, find classes that will stimulate them. If they don’t, and they are mature, let them go. At least students can actually graduate in 3 years now, although there are still many top colleges who have an early admission program if you ask. </p>
<p>I have a D who graduated HS this June, after finishing her AA in May. She was not the least bit interested in going away before now. Not one bit. Nor was she ready. You have to know your student. The hardest part is missing them one year sooner…</p>