<p>I’m in the early high school stage with my own daughter, DesignDad, so I won’t be as helpful as more experienced parents/students - she’s completing 9th. However, I’ve given this some thought myself so I’ll share what we’ve done and are planning to do. </p>
<p>Earlier this spring we were on a road trip and we planned stops at two LACs that I thought my daughter might like to check out. We needed to stretch & have lunch anyway, so why not a lovely college campus?</p>
<p>We went to admissions and picked up a map and asked if we could visit the music building as long as we didn’t disrupt any class. We then just did a self-tour. We were able to see a couple of practice rooms, the concert hall, and the student lounge in the building (if there was one). This was very helpful to my daughter. She could see the campus & facilities without the stress of a College Tour, so it was just a fun visit. We went to the library, the campus student center, and checked out the studio art buildings, too. She likes to ‘see new things’ so this worked for her personality, it may not work for someone who doesn’t like to poke around, etc. We even chatted with a random student or two which was enjoyable and gave a little insight into the place.</p>
<p>One campus is now eliminated because it clearly wouldn’t be a fit student-body wise for her. Good to know, as it’s a long way away and now we don’t need to figure out how to get back there again. The other one is on the list for a future visit with a professor, try to catch a concert, etc. This would be a good college for her if music becomes a second major or minor, probably not best for music only.</p>
<p>Also over the spring she had an audition at a stand-alone conservatory in a city. This is not the sort of environment she can see herself at currently, but again, you never know how things will turn out. At least it gave her background information for the future.</p>
<p>This fall we are going on a short trip specifically to see Oberlin. This will be an official visit, with a conservatory tour. She will not, however, meet with a teacher since it’s early in the game. The main purpose of this visit is for her to see what a “Conservatory” is all about up close & personal. She has met many graduates of Oberlin’s Con, so she thinks she’s a personality fit, but she’s not sure if a full-blown conservatory is what is in her future. As ProMusician mentioned above, the earlier she can make a decision about a musical path the better it will be. </p>
<p>Summer programs are extremely helpful and a nice way to grow musically while meeting terrific kids all engaged in music. They can be strategically used as well, but I’m not able to offer any insight into that process.</p>
<p>If after her summer camp and Oberlin visit my daughter’s further inspired, we’ll take things from there. I like spreading things out over time, making it a thoughtful & fun process so the final push is worthwhile & satisfying. Not at the final push yet, though, so it’s still easy to keep calm and carry on :)</p>