<p>I would like to start off by saying that before coming to CC I had no idea what a gap year was or what a saftey school was. I did know, however, what schools my daughter was interested in, which prior to CC, I would have called her top choices.</p>
<p>I would also like to say that I am asking questions, bringing up ideas, and presenting thoughts, in order to gather information that will help us and others in future classes to make the wisest decision possible for our children. At no point do I mean to offend anyone and if anything I say seems "stupid" please remember that many us that come onto CC do not have the knowledge or background that some of you seem to have. I try to read as many of the posts I can, do not always have time to comment, and often find myself more confused about something after reading the posts. This I am sure is natural. </p>
<p>That being said, I have begun to ask myself various questions and have come up with a few answers, that I hope will give me the wisdom to help guide my daughter the best I can.</p>
<p>TOP CHOICES;
I originally thought top choices meant all of the big name schools that through reputation have the finest programs.</p>
<p>I now feel that the top choice for my daughter should be the school where she feels she fits in the best and can thrive and where she feels she can intensively gain the knowledge needed to pursue her goal of being a TV/Film actor whether it is on the screen/tv or through voiceover. (Please remember when making comments or providing advice that she is not opposed to the stage but is confident that she knows where she fits best and does in fact enjoy and is not closed to performing "modern" stage). Her passion however is film and tv and that is the direction she desires to take.</p>
<p>I am still in the process of trying to help her decipher what schools should be on this list and I must say it is quite time consuming and confusing at times, but we continue to plug forward.</p>
<p>Currently I have tried to look into every BFA program we have heard of and by going online and researching the schools, and printing out the curriculm, courses offered, and the 4 year course sequence, have developed a list of Most likely to fit, Possible fit, Need more Information, Unsure fit, and Doubtful fit. </p>
<p>I have also tried to take into account that she is not interested in the Liberal Arts College(LAC) curriculm and would prefer to take as many classes in her field of study and those directly related, as possible. (She does have the understanding that the LAC courses are necessary for many of the programs) This I feel, would for us, preclude the need to audition for any BA programs.</p>
<p>One of the things I have questioned when reading others comments is why the need to pick 10-15 schools, are there really that many schools she is going to fit into, or is she just suppose to make sure she gets in somewhere. </p>
<p>Although I do understand the approach, I am wondering if this is the right approach for her, or the right way to present the approach to her. </p>
<p>She is not looking into getting into just anywhere. The goal I do not feel should be just to get into a BFA program.</p>
<p>The goal is a repeat of what I said previously. To get into a BFA program that she feels best fits her and where she can thrive, and has a program that will educate and train her and give her the "best" knowledge possible to prepare her to pursue her goals.</p>
<p>That does not mean we do not research 10-15 schools, however, I want her to have a clear understanding of what her goal is and how does applying for 10-15 schools, and possibly just going wherever she gets in, fit into that goal.</p>
<p>GAP YEAR
This leads me to thinking about this new found term of a gap year. If she does not get into the schools she feels most suited to her then should she sit out a year and if so why, and what should she do doing this year to prepare herself to make another "go" at the schools that she felt best fit her but have already rejected her? </p>
<p>I think we most properly assess to the best of our ability and with realistic appreciation for her current training and talent level, why she did not get into those schools, and if a gap year in fact will present her the time she needs to prepare, train, discover herself, etc.</p>
<p>Trying to decide what to do during this gap year I am sure will be different depending on where you live, what is available to you, what kind of money you have to spend, etc.</p>
<p>SAFETIES:
This is I must say. where the most questions arise in my mind.</p>
<p>Is having a safety school mean you want to be safe that you make it into somewhere?</p>
<p>Why audition for a safety school? </p>
<p>What type of safety school are you auditioning for?</p>
<p>Is it a school you will agree to go to only if you do not get into anywhere else, and
is that a good choice to make, just pick whatever school is left over? </p>
<p>Are there safety schools out there that people are calling safety schools that have a program that is comparable to some of the very good BFA programs?</p>
<p>Are you giving up on your number 1-number 5 (ex) choice because you are being realistic or are you just happy to get into somewhere? </p>
<p>Many questions and many things to think about but all I hope very helpful to ask yourself when on this journey.</p>