<p>To the OP, the continuing arguments between those who say, “the Ivies (or elite schools) are not really special and you could do just as well attending your flagship in state university” and those who say “the Ivies or Elites are so so so so special that your kids will be doomed if they don’t go there (but mine are not because they are going)” tend to be best ignored. I do think that the article that annasdad cited is written by a guy who knows the answer and tries to bend the information to fit it. He has a strong vested interested in the conclusion. Not sure why in his case. So, I’m going to focus instead on your concern as an immigrant and children of immigrants, which is making sure you make choices that enable you to earn enough to support a family at a nice level.</p>
<p>If your interest is in earning a sufficient living to support a family, probably what matters the most is the field you choose. At the moment, folks who have training that lets them work in software, tech industries, or financial industries tend to do well. This typically but not always includes folks with computer science, engineering, physics, math, statistics, etc. degrees. (STEM but probably not so much biology and I’m not sure about chemistry). A close friend of my son is an art student with a technical background – he was making over $50,000 a year in a gap year during high school. In a recent study, the median salary of data scientists was $117.5K and went up with for people knowledgeable with a great set of tools. Supply of STEM folks could increase and if demand doesn’t as fast, wages will decline. But so far, supply is restricted relative to demand. </p>
<p>It used to be that kids who went to Ivies and majored in English or art history would waltz over to the management training programs at banks and then have a job in banking or finance (and would drink gin and tonics or martinis in Darien, CT)… Knowledgeable people can correct me, but I think the banks have eliminated or curtailed these programs and generally companies are looking for students with skills that make them productive right out of school. Take a look at Northeastern with its coop program in Boston. </p>
<p>On average, kids from the elite schools in the same fields are likely to earn more – particularly in finance. Like you, OP, I’m thinking comparing the very top schools (the elite 15 or so including the Ivies, Stanford, MIT, Caltech, Amherst, Williams, … ) with strong schools that are below the very top. For starting salaries, it is very likely that there is a much higher correlation between salary and the field of study than eliteness of school. It is possible that over the life of a career, students from elite schools do better in terms of income, but that probably conflates about three things: 1) on average, it is harder to get into elite schools and thus the kids will on average be stronger; 2) elite schools tend to have much stronger alumni networks; and 3) employers tend to give weight to the eliteness of the school when hiring (“She went to Stanford. She must be bright.”)</p>
<p>To have a fairly good shot at making a good income, I would focus on getting into the appropriate STEM area of a strong school that has a good reputation in the field you are going into and then get internships that cause you to learn about what you need to do inside businesses. </p>