@veruca as pointed out, many of the former women’s colleges, Vasar / Bennington, and more “liberal LACs” , Sarah Lawrence / bard / Hampshire are accepting of fluid gender identities.
I’m with @veruca in understanding your impulse toward women’s colleges, @ninakatarina! It can’t be easy to make this shift with your son, and for what it’s worth from a stranger, I admire the job you’re doing.
If he doesn’t recognizes himself as a female, it’s no good forcing him to apply to women’s college. I’ve never seen any trans people at the campus, sorry…