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I think the OP has gotten his just deserts. He picked Cal, a very prestigious school but one that is not known for attention to undergrads. And as an OOS student he is paying $40K or more a year, a sum that would pay the tuition practically anywhere in the country. So why was Cal chosen over some other school that provides a better experience at that price? My answer is it must have been prestige. And now the OP is looking to make the same decision with the same criteria but hope for better results. He is looking for a household-name elite school that has a better environment. </p>
<p>So is Cornell better? I dunno. But any OOS student who could get into Cal could get into most other colleges in this country. Given that he chose Cal I think it is the decision-making process that is flawed here, not the school.
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<p>Uh, don't you think you're being a bit harsh? Everybody wants both prestige and a good undergraduate environment. Everybody wants to have their cake and eat it too. You do, I do, we all do. </p>
<p>The problem is that most people don't get everything that they want. So they have to prioritize. In the case of the OP, he apparently prioritized prestige over undergrad experience. That's not to say that he didn't value undergrad experience at all, it's just that when he was forced to pick only one, he picked prestige. What's wrong with that? </p>
<p>For example, I frankly suspect that the people who go to Harvard are there mostly for the prestige. And I don't necessarily see anything wrong with that. Like it or not, we live in a brand-conscious world where brand names matter. It's a simple career move. Sometimes you have to give up something that you want in order to get something else that you want. That's how optimization works.</p>
<p>But given a different set of contraints, you might optimize differently. For example, if the OP can now transfer into, say, Stanford or MIT, then what's wrong with that? In that case, he would have * both * more prestige * and * a better undergraduate experience. I suspect the OP was not given those choices back when he was a high school senior, and so that's why he's not there now. But if he gets those choices now, it seems as if he comes out ahead. </p>
<p>So I hardly see how his going to Berkeley is a matter of 'just desserts'. You have to make a choice based on what is actually available to you at the time, and also importantly, with the information you have available to you at the time. Not everybody gets admitted to their first choice right out of high school. In fact, the vast majority of people do not. </p>
<p>Hence, first of all, I'm not even sure that the decision-making process was necessarily flawed. Like it or not, prestige is important in this world. But even if the decision-making process was flawed, people should be allowed to adjust their decision-making processes as they learn more. Let's face it. 17-18 year old kids don't really know what they're doing and often times make bad choices. It's pretty harsh to force a kid who made a bad decision to have to live with it forever. That's like saying that if a kid picks up smoking at 17, then that kid should never be allowed to quit because it's his "just desserts" to be a smoker for the rest of his life.</p>