Hello…
I am currently studying nursing at a four year university as a second semester freshman. Recently, my father has had numerous medical issues due to his declining health (he was admitted to the ICU after having several heart stunts put it and there are new issues arising). With that being said, my father will most likely have to retire. My mother is unemployed (and has been for years).
With this being said, my parents told me that they will have a very hard time supporting my college funds (tuition, room & board, fees, flying home (I went far away) despite it being a state school and I will also have to assist my father in health (since my mom will most likely seek employment to keep us floating). My only option to still go for my nursing degree is at a local community college (all the surrounding universities or colleges are private and cost (at a minimum) 40K+/yr and earn my bachelors at night while working (and hopefully having it paid for by the hospital).
I was wondering what impact this will have on my chances of getting into graduate school to go for my NP degree. I just feel to go from 4-year (which I did well in, 3.5 with rigorous classes) to a CC will look terrible on my transcript. A prof of mine said to avoid that by any means possible, while others actually earned their associates at a CC.
In addition, how can I avoid the feeling of ‘missing out’ on the college experience? I know it is selfish to think that with my father dying and my parents not being able to keep their finances together but I sometimes do ponder it when I walk around my campus.
Thanks.