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I will mostly let the Emory folks talk about Emory, although I know it fairly well. They do have great facilities, thanks to all that money from the Coca-Cola empire. And their admissions is a notch more selective than Tulaneâs. Itâs not a huge difference, but it is there. As far as reputation, though, I think it depends somewhat on where she ends up settling, and in any case I have found through the years, and it continues to be confirmed by the success of my D and so many of her classmates, that this factor is usually overblown. Outside of perhaps the Wall Street types recruiting from the Ivies and a few other selected schools, generally speaking it is more a matter of what you can put on your resume as to how you spent your time as an undergrad, and how you present yourself.
As far as the $8,000 per year, only you know if that is a major amount to your family. To state the obvious, it most likely matters a great deal more to a family that makes $75,000 per year than to one that makes $300,000 per year. Certainly I would say that there is nothing about almost any highly selective school (for undergrad) compared to another highly selective school that justifies straining the family budget.
I also wouldnât worry about the party reputation. I promise you the Emory folks head into Buckhead and other parts of Atlanta quite regularly and party plenty. If she doesnât attend the parties at Tulane (or Emory), they canât be too wild. It wonât leave her with nothing to do on the weekends. I have lost count of how many times I have said to someone on here âThere are plenty of people at Tulane that are like you and just want to go to movies, hang out, take in a concert, try new restaurants sometimes, wander through the art galleries, etc. Just find themâ. If I could wave a magic wand and have them appear in the auditorium at Tulane at the same time, the place would be cited for breaking the occupancy fire code. To be fair, it would be the same in Atlanta. Both great cities with lots of options that donât have to include drinking and wild partying. The key at Tulane, or anyplace, is to be a little outgoing and do some planning for these activities. Except for the hanging out. Going for pizza and hanging out doesnât take a lot of planning.
Also I had to chuckle a bit at the sports. Tulane WISHES that it was a âsports infused atmosphereâ. It is certainly there, and with the stadium now on campus I am sure there will be more interest in the football team at least. But Tulane is a very long way from intense when it comes to sports. If my D (not a sports person in general) were still there, she would probably have fun with some friends at some tailgate activities and then go off and do something else when game time came around. Tulane is not even close to being dominated by the sports scene.
As usual I typed more than I meant to before getting to what I think is the most important factor. If she is confident about her major of gender/sexuality studies, then I strongly urge her to look hard at the Newcomb College Institute and the Newcomb Scholars program. I think these resources/programs could be a unique and superior experience for her, and for enhancing her law school prospects. Although law schools do focus on GPA and LSAT scores, there is no doubt that a record of accomplishment beyond those can push one into the acceptance column at any school, including top law schools, if it is a close call. But even beyond how it might or might not enhance her law school prospects, the experience for her could be life-changing. She should also look at the Tulane Scholars program as an alternative to the Newcomb Scholars. She would be assigned a professor in her field as a mentor from the start, and have enhanced opportunities for internships and fellowships in her area. Again, I cannot speak to what Emory offers that might compare to this, but I know this is a strongly positive area for Tulane.
Clearly this is a luxurious choice for her to have to make. Talk about not being able to go wrong! But I understand it is still a choice she has to make and wants to make the âmore right oneâ for herself. I think that if she A) takes advantage of one of the two scholars programs I mentioned, and B) can establish a group of friends fairly quickly that also donât want to just do the frat parties, etc., then I think she would have a great career at Tulane. BTW, I believe the Tulane Law School runs a clinic for helping people with gender/sexuality issues. That is something else she should check out. I think Tulane offers the kind of opportunities she is looking for.