@18EagleMom
Our gap year was not originally planned, it became a circumstance when DD did not apply to a financial safety and did not go after merit dollars. When all options came down to someone, either her or us, securing large loans which we had said we would not do, we flat out said no.
Not all schools will allow merit and a gap year, we found UAH at the very end of April and she could have applied and received the top scholarship however we didn’t want to feel rushed or desperate so I contacted UAH and asked about merit and gap. Since they said that was doable, we took a step back to breath and reevaluate. DD applied in early August, then honors college acceptance in October, we visited in November and this week we received her award letter.
To be honest, DD was not excited at all about school in Alabama, she wanted Northeast but didn’t find anything affordable. We moved to Texas from the West when she was in 8th grade. She hates it here, doesn’t like the culture. She’s our social justice, extremely liberal minded, feminist child. However, I’m not a huge fan of this current trend where college is an experience, an adventure and the fit must be perfect. I’m not supportive of a $100K experience. Get an education cheap as possible, spend money on grad school if necessary and self fund ones “experience” when education is completed with as little debt as possible.
After visiting she has a much better outlook and we are thrilled she will be debt free.
Its about 900 miles, two day drive. She’s getting excited and I know she is ready for this next chapter. I’m really glad we took that extra year as she’s more focused, relaxed and ready. She will be an older student as with her birthday and when she started school, she will turn 20 in the early weeks of her Freshman year.
One of her friends also took a Gap with UT. He was an auto admit and requested a deferment so he could work for a year and save money as he’s facing big loans as well.
UAH has a good reputation, getting better every day and their partnerships with the tech industry is a huge plus!
Wanna carpool?