<p>Well to be fair, in no way did I say that a response from the university was required by me, only that I was hoping for communication. So what line did I cross, exactly?</p>
<p>So then, JHS, if what you are saying is true, then the university should stop all of the reassurances given to parents regarding safety. Then when an incident happens, they can say that it is between them and the student. Do you not see that it cannot be both ways on this?</p>
<p>Yes, she did fall asleep with her door unlocked, which is a big no-no. I do not believe she will forget to lock her door ever again, nor will most of the other kids in Hitchcock who didn’t lock their doors.</p>
<p>And Thank goodness no one was harmed, but I really feel that the security problem was NOT identified and addressed. I am telling you that they put a band aid on the door. I saw it before the break-in, and I saw it after. It is still breachable. There are a number of things that can be done with the security system in that house, for very little money, to secure that exit only door. Maybe they will do something other than add a strip of wood to the door, maybe they won’t. But wouldn’t it be nice if either us, or my daughter, were informed of any steps they planned to take? Thats right, besides the house meeting on the subject, my daughter has received no further communication on this.</p>
<p>JHS, how nice it must be to live in your world. To send your children off to college and then just totally step out of their lives. How very progressive and mature. Well I must be in the weak minority. Just because my kid is 18 does not mean that I will turn a blind eye to her safety/living conditions. Yes, her room door was unlocked, that was her fault. And there was a witness to the intruder, the boy on the third floor who’s room was also entered. He woke up and saw the intruder clearly, that is where the description came from. And I witnessed the actual damage to the door, the intruder used force to gain entry and broke the door in the process. Why did the person at the desk not hear what was going on in the hallway directly behind him/her?
That had to have made noise, it was 3am and quiet. were they sleeping? You sound like the kind of person who blames the victim when a crime occurs, which I think just stinks. And also the kind of person that likes to opine without having all of the facts. I am familiar with your posts and you are an intelligent and thoughtful poster who usually has good information/advice. But not this time. I feel it is you who crossed the line.</p>