<p>Seriously, how big of prestige whores do we have on this forum? Someone comes out and says "I really want to go here, it's my first choice" and your replies are "Psh, why do you want to go there? It's not a top 25 school!"</p>
<p>It's their decision. Maybe the OP loves the big time sports appeal of Oregon, the outdoor aspect of Oregon, wants to go away for school, doesn't want to be somewhere where 95%+ of the students are in-state, or maybe the older brother being there has some kind of an impact. You shouldn't be saying "why do you like that" rather encouraging students to go where they want to. </p>
<p>Someone coming from Los Altos (a city with a median household income over 130,000 and home value over 1,500,000) isn't going to qualify for financial aid anywhere. The OP is essentially going to be paying full price for any education, minus scholarships that he/she receives. </p>
<p>Oregon is a "waste"? Oregon is an AAU member (one of the top 60 universities in the country), has a beautiful campus, an amazing athletic department, is located in Eugene which is a great college town, tons of great outdoor activities. </p>
<p>Being from California and having good stats is even better - they can qualify for the WICHE program (linked below) where they receive reduced tuition that is cheaper of what they would pay at most of the UC's (5,616). Not to mention that cost of living (Room and Board) is about half of any UC as well, making total costs before scholarships around $14,000/year for Oregon and $21,000/year for UCLA/UCB, and that's before scholarships where the OP is likely to receive money at Oregon and nothing at the UC's. But you knew that, when you made the comment that it was paying $30,000 for a Honda, right?</p>
<p>Honestly, I can just see some of your kids coming up to you guys and saying "Mom, Dad, I want to go to Iowa State! I know I will really like it there, Mark is there, and it's affordable" but you guys shunning them and saying "That's not an Ivy League school! You can't go there!" Aren't you as parents supposed to be encouraging students to follow their heart and go where they want to? Isn't that where they are most likely to succeed?</p>
<p>WICHE</a> - Student Exchange Programs</p>