Yeah, to chime in about Stamps at Pitt, specifically. We still feel that my kids’ stats and accomplishments in high school got her a lottery ticket to take part in a raffle because she qualified for that raffle. After that, during the interview process, she had to be genuinely herself and see how it unfolded. That’s what it feels like. And, Stamps at Pitt is not just about great stats. @coldwombat was saying her son decided NOT to apply for Stamps elsewhere, because they’re right – it’s waaay more than grades and scores. But I am sure there is a threshold for those things or you’d be eliminated. Then they are looking for passion, goals, accomplishments, desires, involvement, blah blah. And even then, the candidate has to have the “right fit” for the scholarship. At Pitt, Stamps is about global and domestic leadership development potential. Not all high achieving kids who have amazing extra curriculars fit that mold for this particular scholarship. But they might fit a mold at another school, but they also need to have found that scholarship that is out there so that they know to apply.
And you can also carry this thinking over to any huge scholarship anywhere.
And Stamps at other schools may be looking for some things that are different than what Pitt looks for.
My D22 and I talk all the time about the generosity of Mr. Roe Stamps and what he has established at the Stamps Partner Schools. And it is not lost on the 20 Pitt Stamps Scholars. She says they are all constantly blown away, still, at what has been provided to them through this opportunity. It’s an extraordinary one. It’s a regular part of their conversation and mentality.
I still have a S25 at home, and while he is showing he has the grades so far, there is no way he is cut from the same cloth as my D22 to get that lottery ticket. Has some service, but no burning passions and has 1 main involvement. And he’s a great kid who is smart, and wants to prep well for SAT and ACT. And he is perfectly awesome as he is and is tremendously talented at his instrument, and being my 4th kid, I know he will find a school where he can flourish.
So don’t be discouraged, and love the school that loves you back!!! My D18 was one of those rock stars that applied ED to Wash U, was deferred, then denied. CWRU accepted her for the year AFTER her gradation year after a defer then waitlist. Cornell offered her a transfer option after a waitlist. Georgetown waitlisted her. Vanderbilt denied outright. It was a nightmare. And she didn’t make it past round 1 of the Stamps process at Pitt. Total rock star of a kid. But Pitt - a safety where she had not planned on taking seriously - offered her the GAP for Physician Assistant, $10,000 per year merit (in state), and the Honors College. She kicked butt, and today is her first day of graduate school for that Master’s in PA Studies!
Keep your heads up and realize it’s a business. Take the great offer if it comes, and your kids really are amazing and have accomplished things that are awesome! No school can change that.