Hi everyone! I am struggling to make a decision between the colleges I was accepted to before the May 1st deadline and am looking for some advice as a final resort.
This post is likely to be a little lengthy, but I would really, really appreciate your help and would like to say thank you to those who take the time to read through it! I’m at a complete loss and running out of time, so any advice is extremely valuable to me.
Although I got accepted into a few other schools, I have managed to narrow my choices down to 3; The University of Rochester, OSU, and Utoledo (a local school).
Here’s where the dilemma comes in.
I thought for most of my life that I wanted to shoot for med school and have tailored my classes and interests towards that particular path. However, in the last few years, I’ve decided that this might not be the right career for me. Truthfully, I am an artist and love the idea of entrepreneurship. The passion for med school doesn’t seem to be there. I feel as though I was seeking approval from others and ‘financial stability’ more than anything.
I have gotten into the Bacc2MD program at UToledo. Basically, it’s a guaranteed interview for med school at ut as long as I maintain a high gpa. It also allows for med school application one year early without taking the MCAT. I volunteer with a lab that I LOVE and have performed well in the research world (I was named a finalist for ISEF 2022). I feel that the Bacc2MD program and my lab spot would be invaluable if I decided to stay on a med school track. But if I decide to pursue something else, I fear that I will regret not going to a more prestigious university.
But that’s when Rochester comes in. I was not admitted to any special program and will just be a neuroscience major. Compared to UT, Uroc is a lot more prestigious. I feel that the connections and opportunities that I may receive there would be better than what I would get at UT. But I’m not sure if these positives outweigh those of UT. It’s also quite far from home which bothers me slightly as much has been going on at home and I would like to be close by to help.
I feel that UT would definitely be the right option if I wanted to continue towards med school, but I’m not sure if that’s what I want to do. I could attend UT on the med track and change my mind later, but I worry that I’ll regret not having chosen the more prestigious institution. Although I’m not sure if the undergrad school name matters much for med school, I don’t know if it does for other careers.
If I wasn’t interested in med, I think I would choose Uroc. The fast track med opportunities I have at UT wouldn’t matter if that’s not what I’ve decided to do with my career, and attending a more well known institution may help if I choose a different health science, art, or business track. However, I feel that it will be a lot harder to stand out at Uroc as a med school applicant and get the opportunities I already have at UT. I think I would feel disappointed in myself for giving away my spot in the Bacc2MD program at UT. Also, Roc will cost me approximately $80,000 a year, which will blow through a good chunk of what I have saved for college. My tuition at UT would be very, very low.
OSU is a school I am familiar with and that many of my friends will be attending. I know it has strong academics and isn’t too far from home, so I find it appealing. I was admitted into the honors college and would be a microbio major. Again, I feel it might be harder to find research opportunities here and stand out as it is a very large school.
Aside from my indecisiveness about what I want to do, I also struggle with school prestige. I have heard countless times that it does not matter and that the salary I will have later in life after attending one school is likely not going to be all that much different from another, it’s still something I struggle with. Attending a school such as UT after working incredibly hard to maintain a high gpa/Act score and push myself outside of academics makes me feel a little as if the hard work wasn’t worth it. But I also know without that hard work, I wouldn’t have the opportunities at UT that I have now.
I have attended Ut for CCP classes and am familiar with counselors there as well. They have been very accepting of certain testing accommodations I have, which is essential to me. Everyone has been very helpful. So far, Roc has been helpful with any questions I have. I am a bit of a homebody and would love to stay home and struggle with the idea of leaving, but I’m also willing to go elsewhere if it would be beneficial to me.
Thank you so much for reading and for your help. All advice is invaluable to me and again, I appreciate your time.
Thank you!