<p>When UVt beat those other guys in March Madness, I "knew" why (because someone on cc said we should all root for them in honor of SoozieVT and her D). But how could I explain that to the "normal" people around me? The power of cc to support Soozie and D is overflowing to the basketball court. :D</p>
<p>Susan,
Thanks for the update and good news. Hugs from Texas!</p>
<p>Susan,</p>
<p>Thanks for writing. We have all been hoping and praying that the surgery would be successful... Sounds like you are all amazing, and that your love and support for eachother will see you through, with much good care. Imagine, a computer in your room! Makes it feel more like home ;) </p>
<p>Blessings!</p>
<p>Susan,
Thanks so much for the update. I was away from the computer for a day and a half and couldn't wait to get back simply to check on you and your daughter. Thank God (like I'm sure we're all doing) things are going in the right direction. We're all here for you guys. With love.</p>
<p>Another Shenandoah Valley salutation... much love to you and your Ds. :) So glad to hear that she will be getting better, and hopefully released soon. Best of luck to her with healing and catching up on work. :)</p>
<p>The show must go on, and your daughter will not be off the boards for long - she'll be singing and dancing her way to stardom in no time!</p>
<p>When I was 19, I was a passenger in a head-on collision and my face put a hole in the windshield. I was in the hospital for four weeks with a severe concussion, had 250 stiches in my cut-up face, broke my nose, and almost lost my right eye. Recovery was several months, followed by eight operations to fix my nose and repair scars over a period of a few years. It was very depressing at first, but the catalyst effect of this traumatic experience spurred me on to make a number of positive changes, including taking a semester off of college to pursue equestrian activities, changing schools, clearly realizing exactly what I wanted to study, and finding a wonderful new boyfriend! :) </p>
<p>The experience taught me that "when bad things happen to good people," it can be, in a way, a gift. Even the most contented life is not always lived in 100% self-actualization - we can easily get crystallized in habitual patterns, even at a young age. The shock of this misfortune was transformed into a net positive in my life. So don't be surprised if, as your D completes her recovery process, she expresses some new ideas and makes some definite choices.</p>
<p>Susan,</p>
<p>Thanks so much for the update and glad to hear that D is on the road to recovery. Congratulations on admissions to the Honors College and the Merit $$. It seems that the worse if behind you ad there are definitely better days ahead.</p>
<p>Take care</p>
<p>I've been travelling, but checked in just to hear aout the future MT star. So much pain for everyone involved. Not surprised, but amazed by your positive attitude. No wonder your daughters are so special and loved by their circle of friends.</p>
<p>Great news, Susan! Our thoughts are with you and the family.</p>
<p>Susan,
I'm so glad things are going well. And I'm glad older D was able to come and visit. Take care of yourself too :)</p>
<p>Suzy</p>
<p>Good for her!!! Things seem to be going the right way now. Good luck with everything.</p>
<p>-Bob</p>
<p>I am still recovering from the shock of finding out what happened to your daughter Soozie! I had not been on for a while and was unaware of her accident so if I did not send you well wishes earlier, please forgive! What this brings to mind for me is that with all the hullabaloo and angst we subject ourselves to as parents in following our children's college application woes and driving them to practices, auditions, summer camp experiences, college visitations and the like as well as aiding them in the whole college application process, we sometimes forget what is most important!!! THEIR HEALTH AND SAFETY!!! While we all have dreams and aspirations for our children, it could be snuffed out in a mere instant........so your story has shaken me back into reality and the recognition that just having them by my side is worth more than any ole' college acceptance. GOD BLESS YOU ALL and good luck. Hope CMU comes through for you as well as your daughter's recuperation. I am still in the state of shock!</p>
<p>Hi, </p>
<p>You won't know me, because I've been a lurker only, until very recently. </p>
<p>I just wanted to say that I read the news last week of your d's accident and I have been praying for her [and for you]. </p>
<p>May she have a smooth journey to full recovery.</p>
<p>Good morning from the "left" coast. I see your posts elsewhere so that makes me think things are going OK. You all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers!</p>
<p>Soozievt - I'm so glad you wrote to fill us in. You hang in there....another so cal wish for a speedy recovery!</p>
<p>Susan,
I was in NYC the past five days when I read about your daughter, but was unable to post.
Let me just say like everyone else, I was shocked, very upset and could not get you off of my mind. I am so pleased that her recovery is progressing.<br>
Of all the people who post on the mt board, I feel the greatest bond to you.
We both have 2 daughters a couple years apart,(very supportive of each other) that seem to have very similar interests, goals, etc.<br>
I have always thought of myself as mom first and teacher, etc. second. You are not only an incredibly devoted mom, but a really caring person in general.
It is obvious from the outpouring of messages and good wishes how many people you have touched . On the mt board you have gone out of your way to support everyone - it is never only about you.
I can't imagine being in your situation and I know I would not have been able to cope as well as you. </p>
<p>One of our first chats on the board was about choosing a program that is right for you. I remember (like myself) you being cautious and feeling that is great advice if you have a choice! Well, as I suspected, your d has some great choices!!! and I'm sure more to come!
God works in mysterious ways- just like the dancer or actor who finishes the show with an injured foot, or waits to get sick until after the last show... your d made sure she got all those auditions completed before the accident -
A remarkable accomplishment.
Last, I have to tell you that when I read your d2 decided to graduate early - it made me feel so fortunate to have my d2 at home for one more year.
So, (although not ideal circumstances) I am pleased you will have some very quality bonding time with your daughter.<br>
Best wishes for a healthy, speedy recovery.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>Drue
aka studio7</p>
<p>Susan,
Glad to hear the surgery is done - all the best to all your family. Will be watching this marque for updates...</p>
<p>Susan--
Just got back from a business trip in CA to read your post--omigosh! I'm so glad to hear that your D is on the mend, slowly but surely. Fortunately, young bodies do heal much more quickly than parents' psyches. My thoughts are with you.
Best,
LM</p>
<p>Susan, just got back yesterday, and have been sporadically posting without systematically checking the posts. I am trembling as I type this. I am ever so sorry about this turn in events, but so grateful that it is fixable. They do recover quickly at that age, and I was so relieved to hear that all of her injuries will heal. Your family is in my prayers. I am so sorry. I also feel foolish just blithely posting with no idea that this happened. </p>
<p>It is always a frightening thing for me to let them drive. As you know, my 23 year old had an accident this summer. A blessing in disguise as a swollen kidney that was ready to burst was discovered when he was checked out at the hospital, and he has fully recovered from the surgery. Had it not been diagnosed, he could have lost the organ. S2 is not permitted to drive because he is just too reckless. I am hoping that time will help this out. </p>
<p>H and I also were in a car accident Sunday. Not serious, though I am now noticing a "spider" in my eye that needs to be examined, and my front tooth stil hurts and has to be carefully watched. Also a bruise on the side of my nose. Could have been much worse, as this occurred in H's successful attempt to avoid a serious accident. It can happen in an eyeblink to any of us at any time. </p>
<p>Do take care of yourself as well. Such wonderful girls you have! And your attitude about all of this is such a healing one. I am sure that your D will be up and about more quickly with the type of outlook that you have instilled about the situation. I wish this had not happened but am so optimistic about the future. So much going for her, and it gives her some down time to think. That too is important. You are in my thoughts and prayers.</p>
<p>Jami</p>
<p>Jamimom - My reaction when I saw you posting on this thread was, oh good, Jamimom is back to add her words to the many people sending Susan support. You have a unique voice and for some reason although I do not know you I for one assumed you would not do anything blithely if someone you know was in trouble.</p>