<p>Slymlady, </p>
<p>Perhaps you should simply consider adding some matches. The problem with the ‘go broke’ attitude is that the kid may have been able to get in somewhere that was better than his safety school but, by having a polarized (safety and all reach) list, if he ends up with rejections at the top level, ends up going to the safety and not the best school he could have been accepted to. The list I included were schools where my kid with a very similar profile (African-American, 30 ACT, 3.0 gpa unweighted, 3.6 weighted gpa, well-known suburban public school) was accepted with substantial $ when his interests included a possible engineering major. If engineering were off the table and you were looking at liberal arts colleges where there are few African-American students, he could probably apply a bit higher with confidence. </p>
<p>Please be aware that the social scene at those liberal arts colleges can be stifling for minority kids. There is a reason those schools have to give some sort of incentive to get minority kids to attend. I was going to send this to you privately but I will include it here just in case it helps someone down the road. One of my kids (much higher stats) really wanted a top lac and, with the help of cc’ers, we made a great list. Kiddo was accepted at a number of them and now has graduated from a top lac with few African-American kids… but if kiddo and I knew then what we know now, I don’t know if we would have chosen the same path. Kiddo got a great education and graduated with no debt (full need met without loans), but kiddo was very isolated. The kids who were most like my kid were middle-class white kids and most of them did not even think of including a minority kid in their circle of friends. The African-American kids were primarily very poor (no Cornell stepdads) and were hostile to kiddo because of middle-class taste in music, activities, etc. The administration itself was remarkably <em>un</em>supportive although there were specific faculty and staff who were very nice and, yes, my kid eventually made friends. I think it may be easier for boys than girls and I think it would have been easier if my kid had been an introvert but, if you are considering a small lac, please look carefully at the social scene and level of integration in light of your own kid’s personality and need for social activities.</p>