<p>"While the sport is not the main driver for his college decision, it is a consideration and understanding the school's position on these programs is, in my opinion, a legitimate question. He is considering a variety of other schools (and perhaps could not compete for all of these schools), including Duke, Princeton, and Virginia. The academic strength and th social fit will likely dominate his decision, but he would also like to have a fulfilling athletic experience as well. Ideally, this means competing on a Division I sports team although the athletic strength of these schools varies widely. "</p>
<p>Well, I'm glad you weren't offended thanks. It would help if you told me what sport. Let's assume for the time being it was soccer, using my S life as an example.. a good player, premere level, strong, fast, skilled and intelligent. Realistically a D3 lock, D2 good posibility and unlikely D1. </p>
<p>A NMF, his third choice college offered basically a full ride (95%). His first and seconds offered about 70% and created a difference of around $30,000 overall. Chances were certain at school 1 & 2 he'd make the sides. He went to #3. At tryouts, hurt his feet a bit and ended up being 26th on the 25 man roster, that was senior laden. The last cut at 1:30 a.m., I think I took it harder than he did. </p>
<p>I felt guilty about taking the extra money for school for a while and keeping him off a roster. He felt fine after about 24 hours and went about seeing about more to life than an NCAA athelete. Within a couple of days he was a college radio station DJ, joined the waterpolo team. He joined choir, he participated in a bunch of stuff. </p>
<p>He was invited back to spring ball and we went down to watch the alumni (included 3 all american players recently graduated) game. He played very well, held his own and certainly was able to compete. Post match, the coach comes over and introduces himself with a handshake and I quote "How did you enjoy (S name) first game as a (Mascot)?" He was all smiles and handshakes and looking forward to having him next fall......</p>
<p>Until two weeks later when he got fall class schedules. He cut my S. </p>
<p>Bad grades? Not enough credits? NO just the opposite. </p>
<p>S is dean's list, pre med and name fraternity scholar last year for this particular college. So why'd he get cut? Science majors have labs that often take place during practice times (one day of the week) and to quote him from the conversation he had with my son "you're too much of a student for my team, I want soccer players first, students second." Which at that point was fine with my S, he could play, but he's at a $35k a year school to be a student first and he knew it. Besides the players hate this coach, guess why? So that fall he started playing lacrosse and loves it as the lacrosse program and coach works around being a student. </p>
<p>My point is this, while your son may play a certain sport now, college also can entroduce your son to other sports to try. There's always something for an athelete to do at college. While it is great to say I played D1, 2 or 3 ball, leaving with a degree is really what your there for. If he didn't make the team in one sport, would he still want to be there? Would he try something different?</p>