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<p>I have seen it all. For example in our last district in NC. The teachers applied for every grant available. Most if not at all teachers received at least one grant.</p>
<p>These grants ranged from planting gardens at the school, to actually taking the students to an amusement park for Math and Science. </p>
<p>It may appear as if I was slamming teachers, I am not. We have amazing teachers in the system. In our school, it was a new science teacher (she was in her 40’s when she got her teaching degree) that applied for the grant to take kids her 8th graders to Kings Dominion. For an entire quarter the education plan was about geometry (the math issue…circumference, radii, etc) and the science part was about force. SHe spent hours investigating the rides, and the kids got to have a fun day at a park, but their assignment was to complete the mathematical and scientific equations for specific rides. </p>
<p>The teacher in our elementary school got grant money to create a garden with perennial and annual plants, PLUS, a koi pond. The kids learned much more from this than any book that ever was printed.</p>
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<p>I agree, I think unengaged parents are the root of the issue. The reason that teacher burn out exists is not only because the lack of funds, but the lack of support. I don’t have enough fingers or toes in my family to tell you the countless stories from teachers regarding how parents will stomp on a teacher’s desk claiming some form of discrimination against their little Suzy or Bobby. Yet, the same parent, will not attend parent teacher conferences, refuse to test them for an IEP. or my favorite…allow them to be sick on test days (as if they are fooling us).</p>
<p>For some parents it is a socio-economic issue. For some it is keeping up with the Jones family. </p>
<p>The stories I can tell you about parents would make your head spin…for example.</p>
<p>I was teaching 1st grade. Little Bobby, could not spell ANT. We started school in Aug. Dec. rolls around, and it is Friday, the day we give spelling tests. Bobby is absent. I call their house to ask where is Bobby. His father answers the phone, and tells me, I should understand, he is a painter, so when it rains he doesn’t have to get up early, which means they keep Bobby home. I inform him at this rate, Bobby will be retained because the amount of absences…REALLY, you would do that? Imagine being a teacher and having to deal with a parent who believes attendance does not hurt the child.</p>
<p>My 2nd favorite story to highlight the socio-economic issue in our educational system occurred when I was a remediation tutor for the school regarding gateway testing (3 & 5 grades). One child in 3rd grade was a legal immigrant child. She asked me flat out why she needs to pass this test because her parents/grandparents did not get passed 3rd grade so they are very proud of her success. Imagine being a teacher and processing that thought. Her parents felt she was a success even though she was failing 3rd grade from the national standpoint.</p>
<p>NC is hardcore, we have parental rights, but you fail the EOG(3,5,8), you will be held back. She graduated at the age of 20. She was the only kid in middle school that was eligible for her DL…couldn’t get it because you also need a certain gpa.</p>
<p>It really is insane regarding parents. They love to tell teachers, you don’t know my kid, but the reality is teachers spend more time with your child than you do.</p>
<p>If you want to get your child engaged, I suggest you do what I have done. Back to school night in front of the teachers with your child by your side, say this…You have my child for more waking hours than me. I am going to support YOU! Your child will chime in real quick, because now it is the teacher and parent against them. You as a parent said Teacher WINS! </p>
<p>Off topic, but many school systems have a great system for the parents. In our county, we can chime into the system and see everything from what they ate for lunch to their latest grades for the DAY (yes, it is updated daily). If your system does not have it, ask that they investigate it. Ours is so good, that when the teacher signs in to assign homework it is tied to our email. Pretty hard for the folks to remain unengaged.</p>