<p>parent57, why are your posts personal attacks on me and others? For the record, I don’t believe in the death penalty, so nobody has to fear getting the electric chair from me. Nor do I think that ALL allegations of rape are true. I would never assume one is.</p>
<p>However, I think it’s perfectly rational when a young woman accuses a resident of the same dorm of a sexual offense for the college to react by moving the accused to a different dorm. This is not a “conviction” of anything. It’s just a precaution the college is taking to protect both parties. I think it’s a perfectly rational response by the college. If I were the parent of the young man involved and thought the accusation was wholly false, I’d WANT him to get out of that dorm ASAP.</p>
<p>I honestly don’t understand why anyone thinks the alleged victim of a rape should be cross examined by the alleged rapist personally. NOBODY is saying that she can not be cross examined at all–that’s NOT what the directive says. The suggestion is that the accused rapist should not be able to cross examine the alleged victim PERSONALLY. </p>
<p>Have you ever known anyone who was the victim of a brutal crime? It doesn’t have to be rape. A lot of crime victims have difficulty being in the same courtroom as the perp and quake in fear when they have to identify him in court. That’s especially true when the accused is all dressed up and stone cold sober and looks innocent as a lamb, whereas when he (assume for the moment really) raped her, he was drunk out of his mind or flying high on cocaine. </p>
<p>Remember the Elizabeth Smart case? She’s the young Mormon woman who was forcibly removed from her home by a religious maniac when she was about 14, “married” to him in a ceremony he himself conducted, raped by him a gazillion times, and kept as a prisoner by the rapist and his wife for over a year. </p>
<p>When she testified against him, he was kept in a separate courtroom where he could see her as she testified and hear every word he said. She however COULD NOT SEE HIM. That was an accommodation the Court granted her because she was still absolutely petrified of him. </p>
<p>Lets assume for the moment that SOME accusations of rape are truthful. Jane Doe, 97 pound, 4 feet 10 inch freshman is raped by a 250 pound rapist when she goes to use the restroom during a college frat party and he follows her in and blocks the door. (That’s not far off the allegations made by several different women who attended parties at the same UPenn frat house.) He rapes her and when she tries to scream, he also hurts her in other ways. ASSUME for the moment this REALLY happened. </p>
<p>You really think he absolutely has to have the right to go up and stand within a few feet of her and cross-examine her? And suggest that it was consensual and she wanted the sex? It’s the end of the world if a lawyer or professor or some other advocate asks her the questions instead of him?</p>