Hey Y’all,
I am a current juniorwho has attended Colby for the past 2 years, but am now taking a semester off due to the oppressive environment. Let me tell you a bit about myself. I am from Houston Texas, and received a POSSE scholarship to attend the Colby. I was pulled in by the promise of a beautiful campus, amazing academics, and a friendly environment. I really only got one and a half of those. While at Colby I was the president of my class for 1.5 years until I resigned to become the President of our LGBT club, The Bridge. As someone who has dealt with the inner workings of the institution, I feel that I have some sound advice to give.
First off let me start by saying that Colby is an overwhelmingly white and overwhelmingly wealthy campus. I knew that I was going to be in the middle of Maine, which is the whitest state in the United States, however, was not prepared for Colby. I often joked that I felt like one of the few Oreo pieces in the cookies and cream candy bar. It wasn’t just the whiteness that got to me, It was the micro aggressions and blatant ignorance of many of the students. I was told my first week of class by two white girls that I was the first intelligent black person they had ever had a conversation with. During my time in SGA, I had people tell me that, After looking at all old Instagram photos of me, they thought that my straight hair looked more presidential than my natural hair. And other things.While I’ve Hadn’t been in the racial majority of any school since intermediate school, Being a Colby was the first time where I was the only student of color in the classroom. Many times I felt that my classmates felt that I was not as smart as them, put down my ideas; at other times, such as in my sociology class, I had to lead the entire class in the discussion about race because my professor was not able to, and no one wanted to respond to him.
At Colby, Many students of color spend their time in the Pugh Center, which is a club space used by many organizations at Colby, where many people feel at home. A lot of white students avoid the Pugh Center because they feel that they are not welcome When actually they are just intimidated by being in the minority. Tour guides also skip this center on their tours because they do not find it important. However, the space has been crucial to me. I feel that many white students are Colby, Although they love to major in Spanish, Don’t make any real attempts to get outside their comfort zone and socialize with black, latinx, or other minority students. While I myself do have white friends, they are not your typical Colby students.They are mainly queer or nerdy or grew up with poc.The preppy, Straight out of boarding school culture doesn’t appeal to me, but is not very accepting also.
I feel that students of color are merely used as opportunities for learning for white students and marketing tools.As a part of SGA, And As a person who worked in the admissions office for a while, I was always kind of in the front seen helping out with things. However, I felt that I was often being put there because I was one of the only black faces. Also, several people have sent me pictures of Colby publications with my face on it. I did not give them permission to use these photos, nor was I paid for them. There was one point where the Colby website literally showcased every single student of color in a photo. It was so misleading it made the school to be so much more diverse than it actually was. I talked to the head of communications about this, and she said that they were just trying to draw in more students of color. However, they do not have enough resources to support us.
As far as the dating scene, Men of color are usually sexualized/fetishized.A lot of white girls find it an accomplishment. However, most women of color are ignored when it comes to romantic life, Both in a dating sense (even though no one really dates at Colby) and in the hook up sense. I’ve seen many gorgeous women of color get passed over for mediocre white women, Both by men of color and by white men. Many of us feel stuck, Made to feel unattractive and undesirable in this foreign land.
During my time at Colby there have been several-racist events. Most recently, a group of senior football players decided to throw up “Back to Africa” party, where the party invitation said to come and gather around the watering hole to watch the beasts wash off the sweat of the day. -_- They begrudgingly gave an apology. There was also a senior who decided to publicly disrespect our only black female Dean on our online civil discourse, for the most bogus reason ever.There was also an incident two years ago where two black students were assaulted on a bus coming back from a Frat party (we have annoying underground frats). My freshman year there was an incident where a genderqueer student was assaulted by some Jocks, who threw ice at them through the window. When they tried to get an apology, The athletes started to choke them and attempted to cut their hair. The result of this being reported was the student who was assaulted getting charged with a penalty, while little to nothing happened to the assaulters.
Also, I feel that there is just a lack of understanding and consideration.This past semester I created a natural hair club at Colby, Which many black women /WOC rejoices in, and had a beautiful time. However, I faced some backlash because some people thought the club was too discriminatory. They said that Colby didn’t have a blonde hair blue eyes club, so why should Black women with curly hair get their own club? First of all, Colby is the blond hair blue eyes club. Everything about the institution upholds that. However, what scared me is that people were talking like that actually had a claim - they did not want us to exist.
However, I also feel that it was very hard for me as a black woman to make other black friends. Many of the people of color here were socialized in whiteness, so they feel that they can be the only black person in their friend group. I have actually had people go out of their way to not talk to or have interactions with me. Mind you, we are 3% of the population, so you notice quickly. I messaged one girl asking why she was avoiding talking to me, Genuinely wondering why she did not want to be part of my hair club, and she simply told me to stop messaging her because it was harassment. I feel that this environment sets people against each other Because there’re only so many coveted spots for minority students to enter these friend groups.
While this is a fairly small campus, and there are some queers, many of whom in the closet. Those of us who are out are out and proud.However, there is a fair amount of homophobia on this campus. Colby’s gender-neutral bathrooms were vandalized this year, and there are always homophobic slurs being thrown around. Also, as a person heavily involved in the Jewish community, I have seen anti-Semitism. I heard one athlete being called a “dirty Jew,”. Also, many people refuse to acknowledge our Rabbi even though he has done so many things for our campus and gave a benediction at the Obama;s last Channukah party!!
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