<p>Hello everyone! Congrats to everyone who received letters of admissions. To those waitlisted, don't give up, three of my best friends here were waitlisted before they ultimately got it. For those rejected, get angry, let it out, do whatever you need to. Unlike a lot of Dukies, Duke was not my first choice, but that doesn't mean that I deserve to be here less than someone else or that I enjoy it less than they do. Love the schools you did get into and eventually they will become your home just as Duke has become mine. I still feel kind of a bitter towards my #1 choice, but whatever, you've just got to accept that the decisions process is semi-random and totally subjective. It's a lot like life. Honestly after a year at duke I see how pointless it is to compare the top 30/50. My education would not change at all if I went to USC or Vandy or wherever, the only differences are people, tradition, and clubs/connections/opportunities (not better or worse, just different). A lot of Duke professors suck. A lot will change your life. A University is so heterogeneous that comparisons between students are useless, let alone comparisons with other schools. Love where you end up, forget what came before.</p>
<p>"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned."
-Buddha</p>
<p>Now for those accepted, I will be a Blue Devil Days Tour Guide and if you have ANY questions ask away. I entreat any other Dukies to join in as I cannot promise that I'll be able to be on here everyday (midterms here never end haha).</p>
<p>I guess just some basic FAQ-esque comments:</p>
<p>-Yes the weather is blazing hot when you arrive, glorious after those first few weeks of scorching sun, and quite cold from Dec-Feb
-Yes you will question your major, most pre-meds will drop because they don't love medicine they just love the idea of being a doctor
-Yes East rocks, and no what dorm you are in does not matter. I am in the Backyard (RANDOLPH!) but the main quad dorms have just as much fun
-The marketplace will be wonderful for the first month, decent for the rest of 1st semester, and terrible 2nd semester. But don't worry about it. Commiserating with everyone else about your marketplace woes makes for hilarious odes and conversations
-Yes Duke rocks, I don't know a single person who tried to transfer
-The Blue Book will come. It will tell you all. Skim my class's blue book to get the idea (everything will probably be the same except for dates and fees)
-Campus Opportunities are beyond amazing and you will find your niche, don't stress about making friends, networking, finding your perfect place, or whatever else you are agonizing over. It always works out and you discover who truly are in the presence of the some of the world's greatest people.
-If you're on the fence about Duke don't be. I got off the Harvard waitlist and I just couldn't accept it. I've never regretted sticking with Duke.</p>
<p>**For reference:
I am male, a freshman, from MO, secretary of the freshman class/VP of my dorm, an Econ & International Comparative Studies double major, in NROTC, involved with: the chronicle, american grand strategy program, la table francaise, and Sig Pi.</p>
<p>I will be giving 6 BDD tours (4/12 11:30 & 12:15, 4/15 11:30 & 12:15, and 4/18 11:45 & 12:45) & 2 student info sessions (4/11 & 4/14) . If you think you'll be coming to BDD and you want to speak before or after one of my tours/sessions just message me! I remember how many questions I had, so I'm here to help y'all as much as I can.</p>