Wellesley's Societies

<p>I just want to prod a little bit into what these things actually ARE... I saw them referred to as "nerdy sororities" once on some website. Could I get some general feedback?</p>

<p>Suggested talking points:
-What kind of girl joins a society?
-How are these societies looked upon by non-members?
-What do the societies do in the Wellesley community?
-What is the time commitment for a society?
-(This is a big one) What does the rushing process entail? Anything a self-respecting person would frown upon? </p>

<p>Thanks a lot! Candidness is appreciated ;)</p>

<p>Ninety-one views and no replies? Are they that taboo? :P</p>

<p>(hopeful :bump:)</p>

<p>I've never heard of these societies. Most of the people on here must not have either since they haven't responded. Sorry!</p>

<p>Wellesley has three undergraduate "societies": </p>

<p>Tau Zeta Epsilon,
<a href="http://www.wellesley.edu/Activities/homepage/tze/intro/tauzetaepsilon.html%5B/url%5D"&gt;http://www.wellesley.edu/Activities/homepage/tze/intro/tauzetaepsilon.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p>

<p>Zeta Alpha,
<a href="http://www.wellesley.edu/Activities/homepage/za/%5B/url%5D"&gt;http://www.wellesley.edu/Activities/homepage/za/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p>

<p>and Shakespeare Society for which I cannot find a link!</p>

<p>Now you know. :)</p>

<p>Wellesley has four societies on campus. We do not have any nationally affiliated sorority groups on campus. The societies are the closest things.</p>

<p>Tau Zeta Epsilon (TZE): They are the arts/music society
Zeta Alpha (ZA): The literature society
Phi Sigma (Phi Sig): The lecture society
Shakespeare Society (Shakes): self explanatory.</p>

<p>In terms of numbers, a small number of students are part of the societies. If you're not in one, you won't feel left out. That said, all four societies will sponsor events/programs/speakers open to the entire campus. For example, Shakes will put on productions every semester, and I remember going to a ZA event where they had Arthur Golden (author of Memoirs of a Geisha) speak when I was a student.</p>

<p>That said, the societies are "closed" in the sense that not everyone who wants to join, can. There is an "application" process for all the societies, known as "teaing." Usually all the groups will advertise at the beginning of the semester, with various notices about having to attend a minimum number of teas in order to be eligible to apply. I have no idea on what goes on at these teas because I've never attended one, but I highly doubt it's anything like the rushing process of frats/sororities (i.e. no goldfish swallowing).</p>

<p>That said, it seems every few years, there is always a debate on campus about the role of these societies, especially within the context of they being closed versus open. When I was a student, there was a membership due to join these societies. Thus, they didn't receive student government funding like all the other Wellesley organizations on campus. I'm not sure if this is still the case. But because of the membership dues, the societies had a sort of reputation of being for the rich girls on campus. Now, I'm sure that membership wasn't exclusive to any one particular socio-economic group, but this was how it was presented to me when I asked someone about them as a first year. And I had a lot of friends in different societies who I know didn't come from "rich" families, so it's not a true generalization, but still, that's the reputation they had. Who knows if that's the way they're still perceived on campus today? I graduated 4 years ago.</p>

<p>I especially knew a lot of students in the Shakes society. I don't think they had membership dues, but don't quote me on that. They were always fun to be around, loved their Shakes house, and can quote Shakespeare nonstop. They did a 24hour, marathon Shakespeare reading of ALL of his works while I was student which was open to the entire Wellesley community, which was loads of fun.</p>

<p>Overall, I'd say that all of the societies are a tight knit group of students who like socializing together and like giving students different options for on campus student life. They're not a large part of campus life, nor do I ever see them becoming a large part of campus life, because of the restrictions they have on their membership numbers. However, this exclusivity doesn't translate into they being the coveted groups that students are scrambling to try and join. Maybe I'll assume you have more pocket money than I do to be able to pay the membership dues, but who cares? There were plenty of other groups that I could join that I was into.</p>

<p>Time commitment-wise, not sure. I can say for Shakes, time commitment could be many many hours a week, especially to get ready for productions - I remember hardly ever seeing friends for some weeks as they got ready for their fall or spring plays.</p>

<p>But the lack of response to the OP's question probably gives a pretty good indication of how large a part they play overall in campus life.</p>

<p>Ahhh good stuff :) Thank you!</p>

<p>Wellesley's Societies
I just want to prod a little bit into what these things actually ARE... I saw them referred to as "nerdy sororities" once on some website. Could I get some general feedback?</p>

<p>Okay, so I'm not in a society. Excuse the misinformed stereotypes of the noninvolved part of the Wellesley population, but this is what you wanted, no?</p>

<p>Suggested talking points:
-What kind of girl joins a society?
People who may have joined a sorority if they existed at another school, which boils down to wanting to be a part of that particular group. Basically, you perceive these types of people as your ideal kind of friends. I don't mean any bad connotations by "ideal kind of friends". It's a fit thing.</p>

<p>As for Shakes, you can join if you are not a theater junkie, but a Big Theater Junkie. And you have to like Shakespeare too!</p>

<p>-How are these societies looked upon by non-members?
Depends on the non-member, really. I know one particular student who liked to hate on people who dressed up for class, spent lots of money and drink too much, and was happy to lump them all in as "society girls". And rant. Loudly. People who are less insecure think of them as one of many consuming extra curriculars that they don't do. I don't really care one way or another about the societies. About two people involved with them are in my circle of acquaintances, so I don't really pay them much mind. My indifference slightly borders on dislike (see the rushing answer).</p>

<p>Students also think their electronic advertisements can be a little much at the beginning of the semester (that goes for all the a capella groups too!).</p>

<p>-What do the societies do in the Wellesley community?</p>

<p>The Shakespeare Society puts on two plays a year. They do a "Haunted Haus" for parents weekend, and a "Haus of Fools" on April 1. They'll also put on some other events, such as the 24 hour play reading, and a reading of plays on Severence Green.</p>

<p>Phi sig puts on lectures. Last year they did a "professors and their passions" series which went exactly like you think it would. I went to the lecture by the Professor who is also a professional ballroom dancer, and it was excellent. However, the groups that consistently bring the heavy hitters to campus are the Students for Reproductive Rights and the Wellesley College Republicans.</p>

<p>ZA is a literary society. They have a poetry contest and they give away money for it. It's going on right now, otherwise I would tell you ZA doesn't do all that much.</p>

<p>TZE is the art and music society. None of their events besides their parties are ever interesting or well advertised enough to register on my radar, which is that of a person who likes to read through event ads.</p>

<p>The societies will put on parties, and outside SBOG (and the Munger Mash), they are one of the few groups that will have events that attract off-campus boys. And theses parties take place in their little houses which are away from Dorms.</p>

<p>If I had to order the groups from sorority like to nerdy sorority, I would say, TZE, ZA, Phi Sig, then Shakes. I am told the Shakes party the hardest, however.</p>

<p>-What is the time commitment for a society?
I don't know. I feel that it's probably your major extra curricular.</p>

<p>-(This is a big one) What does the rushing process entail? Anything a self-respecting person would frown upon?
Rush? No, you "tea". Teaing entails going to the number of events the table tent or Spam that advertises the society says you should go to. I imagine you chat with the members of said society and eat their food.
Typically, you have to be a second semester first year, with the exception of Shakes. My sophomore year, they put out an announcement after the first tea that said "We talked to the first years, and we think you guys are awesome. We want you now, so come back, we'll let you apply!" It's been that way ever since.
If you are admitted, some societies make you wear stupid hats and outfits all week. TZE is the one that comes to mind. It's sort of juvenile, and I have some self respect issues with it. I've been told the people who wear the stupid outfits think they are the luckiest people ever, so who knows. But this is where my mild dislike comes from, because making people dress up a certain way smacks of middle school to me.</p>

<p>I know a phi sig member who described the member selection process to me. It's a lot harder on the current members because they debate into the wee hours of the morning and get no sleep that week. If a current member has a problem with <em>you</em>, you're out. I get the impression the "problem" would not be a petty one. I forget what makes phi sig different from the other societies. I think they read the applications without names on them or something more objective than the other groups.</p>

<p>Anyway, since you will be at Wellesley for a semester before applying, you will get a feel for what the rest of campus thinks of them, but most importantly, what you think of them.</p>

<p>Ahh, thank you very much. I had been hoping you would respond since I have singled you out as "the helpful, knowledgeable one" :P</p>

<p>Unfortunately you confirmed some of my misgivings about my own involvement in societies if I come to Wellesley... oh well! It's a nice thought?</p>

<p>I checked your recent posts and remembered that you are a sophomore, looking to apply to Wellesley next year as a junior.</p>

<p>I wouldn't use the existence of societies as a factor to make my decision to attend/not attend Wellesley, since as jacinth_ambrose said, they play such a small part in campus culture. In general, there is no unified culture at Wellesley. The "whole campus" doesn't necessarily follow sports, what's going on at the Society houses, the Theater, the music scene, the political scene or CG. It's "life" for the people involved in any one of these activites, but the individual extracurriculars are more like micro-bubbles. The closest thing to a "whole campus" mentality is the internal online community of people who like to post things rather than do work.</p>

<p>Anyway, here's the other side of societies. I was thinking about this article when I wrote the last post: it comes from Counterpoint, an MIT/Wellesley campus life magazine. The magazine is perpetually in trouble, and has since gone to a new website where you can't get all the archives. Google saved me. The article is very good, and I know the writer and the subject of the article. She's articulated some pretty complicated emotions, and I think she hits the nail on head.</p>

<p>You can find the story on page 14.</p>

<p><a href="http://counterpoint.mit.edu/%7Ewebserver/Documents/archives/Counterpoint_V31_I4_2006_Dec.pdf%5B/url%5D"&gt;http://counterpoint.mit.edu/~webserver/Documents/archives/Counterpoint_V31_I4_2006_Dec.pdf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p>

<p>Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is that there are people behind the societies, and they aren't necessarily bad ones. The person I mentioned who loves to rant about societies is as close-minded as she perceived society girls to be.</p>

<p>If you have a cursory interest in societies, and do attend Wellesley, I would tea before writing them off. (though they could tone down the initiation week getups just a bit).</p>

<p>Hmm, good read. Well, I have a while to decide! Thanks again.</p>