<p>Carolyn,
We are Jewish. We knew we wanted our child to be in Israel for the gap year. So we just researched volunteer programs in Israel. In Israel, there are many such programs, ranging from working on a kibbutz to helping children at risk to working in hospitals to helping to rebuild the lives of the victims of terror. There is no shortage of programs to choose from, we just narrowed it down to programs where housing was provided. </p>
<p>We live in the US, in the Northeast. My child applied to college and was accepted. We then informed the college (a cc top 25) of our child's intentions to defer for a year. Most colleges are happy to comply with a request to defer for a year, so long as the kid is doing something meaningful (e.g slumming on the beach is not an option). </p>
<p>If you were interested in volountering abroad, I would probably just pick a country and google something like "volunteer << country name here >>". </p>
<p>I would also try the International Red Cross. In Israel, the Red Cross has a terrific program that trains kids to be the first responders to trauma. It costs around $400.00 for around two months, and they provide housing for you as well as training. Its very popular with kids that plan to go on to medical school. </p>
<p>One other thing that I would do is to try to find a country where they are doing archeoligical digs. They need voulnteers. It does cost money to volunteer on a dig, but again, housing may be provided. </p>
<p>Lastly, if housing is not provided, there are often young internationals looking for roomates. An apartment may cost $2,000 per month, but if there are four roomates, the cost to you becomes $500 per month.</p>
<p>Try to pick a country where you have an emotional and cultural connection, and start from there. And while I can't speak from experience, my gut would tell me that a modern country in Europe is not going to have too many options. I think that if I were really interested, I would start with Indonesia or Thailand. They were hit by the tsunami, and need help.</p>