<p>andi - I wrote this post right after you started this thread, but our internet died due to basement flooding :(. So I will post it now, even though much of what I wrote has already been said more eloquently by others:</p>
<p>I am very sorry that your son is suffering these disappointments in his admissions decisions. From what you have told us about him, he sounds like a student who would definitely be an asset to any of the colleges he applied to. I am far from the greatest expert on this board, but I will offer you my thoughts on "what went wrong" or what you might have done differently. I am sort of a worrier/pessimist, so, for both of my kids, I insisted that they find a safety school (meaning one for which their grades and scores would be far, far above the starndards for that college). In our case, unlike yours, my worry wasn't that SO MANY kids were applying to great schools (like at your high school), but that so few apply to competitive colleges that the colleges would view a student from our h.s. negatively, as the school would be anunknown to them. Also, guidance is of no help in "guiding" or writing targeted recommendations at our school.</p>
<p>My son was the same type of student as your son (1st in the class, 1590 SATs, and perfect SAT 2s, much recognition for academic and non-academic pursuits) and his safety was our state university, Penn State (which has rolling admissions). We knew that even if he were denied admissions to the Honors College there, he was into the school. For my daughter (this year), it was more difficult as she had no interest in a school as large as Penn State and it would not have been a good choice for her interests in any case . She is also a very good student, but not the type who could aspire to the very top ranked colleges (high 1300's SATs, top 2% of class, much extracurricular involvement). For her, the University of Vermont would have been her safety (if she had not been admitted ED to her first choice school), as we visited and liked it and it had the academic programs she was looking for. </p>
<p>Overall, it seems CC board from reading the that many students were pleasantly surprised to be admitted to schools which were reaches for them, but at least as many others were unpleasantly surprised to be denied at schools for which they thought they easily qualified. One thing is for sure - it is a crazy and unpredictable process. </p>
<p>On the positive side, I bet your son has a very good to excellent chance of being admitted from the waitlist of one of the schools (maybe with the help of his GC explaining the situation). I have no experience with how waitlists work - is it possible to remain on the waitlist for all three schools? I wish him all the best and hope that things work out for him in a way that will make him happy.</p>