Congratulations on your success! I’m not sure if you will be considered an international student for admissions and aid, but the difficulty for you probably won’t be your academic record but financial aid. International students and even out-of-state (OOS) applying to public universities rarely receive much financial aid.
I suggest you google “colleges that meet full financial need.” These schools at least strive to cover all the costs that a student cannot meet. That’s not to say that they would certainly be affordable to any specific student, but at least they are actively trying to do that.
The lists you find will include the most elite, most competitive schools, like Harvard, Princeton, etc. Of course, these schools have extremely competitive admissions. In some cases, fewer than 5% of RD applicants will receive an offer of admission–and the applicant pool is ridiculously strong. And it can be even more competitive for engineering applicants. Good news: Cal Tech, Olin, Harvard, Princeton, Harvey Mudd, Stanford, USC, Stanford, and Cornell are on lists.
All of the US schools on your list are obviously strong schools. A few have reasonable, though low, acceptance rates for international students applying RD. However, these schools–like Loyola Marymount and CP-SLO–may very well not be affordable. Most, though, have very low rates. You are qualified for all of them, but the vast, vast majority of qualified students are not accepted. Again, Stanford’s effective RD acceptance rate for an “unhooked” applicant (i.e. not a recruited athlete) is probably in the 1-2% range. A top student–the valedictorian at a large high school with great test scores–could easily be rejected to almost all if not all of the US schools on your list, except maybe LM and CP. I’ve known about four students who’ve gone to Stanford in recent years. Every single one was a recruited athlete.
Because of your grades and test scores, you might also google schools that offer generous merit aid. I’m not sure you would be interested in the Deep South, but the University of Alabama (main campus) and University of Alabama–Huntsville offer engineering and generous merit aid (I’m not sure how it works for international students though.) NASA has facilities in Huntsville, so it is sort of a high-tech center, though I’m not very familiar with it, except through friends. Miami of Ohio has engineering and offers a very simple table that shows a range of merit aid that a student might expect to receive. As you can see it would be half to full tuition for you, though you’d still have room and board. VERY IMPORTANT: Some schools like Miami of Ohio and USC have a December 1 deadline to receive consideration for merit aid. So the application deadline might be January 1 or January 15, but a student will not be considered for merit aid if they do not apply by December 1. VERY IMPORTANT
http://miamioh.edu/admission/merit-grid/
You might also consider San Jose State, especially if there is some legitimate way you can qualify for CA residency. It has engineering and places lots of grads in Silicon Valley.
If you are really committed to studying in the US–and maybe you will have some great options in Asia–I would suggest you find a few schools with engineering that have RD acceptance rates north of 30% that claim to meet full financial need.
Good luck!