First, I would to say that it must be a difficult situation not knowing what happened or what is going on with your father and can understand why school is not a priority right now. You need to come to terms with the situation before you can move on.
You might want to consider a GAP year after graduation to get things in order.
Since you have done DE in California, you should maximize the transferability of these courses by targeting California schools.
An SAT below a 1000, will make any of the UC’s a difficult admit. As suggested in the above post, UC Riverside and Merced may be an option but your SAT is still below the 25th percentile. If your UC GPA falls within or above their averages, you have a chance at these schools.
2019 SAT w/out essay 25th-75th percentile range:
UCR: 1130-1400
UCM: 1020-1290
UC GPA calculator link and your DE courses will be given extra weighting (1 point for each semester class taken during 10-11th grades):
https://rogerhub.com/gpa-calculator-uc/
2019 UC capped weighted GPA averages along with 25th-75th percentile range:
UCR: 3.90 (3.69-4.11)
UCM: 3.73 (3.45-4.00)
The UC’s allow you to write about your struggles through their personal insight essay prompts so these 2 schools could be options.
I would also look at the Cal states especially your local in-service area CSU where you get priority. Cal states admit by CSU capped weighted GPA = UC Capped weighted GPA and test scores which is calculated into an Eligibility index.
You are then ranked based on local vs. non-local, Eligibility index and major. A higher CSU GPA can make up for a lower SAT.
EI= (CSU capped weighted x 800) + (SAT Math + EBRW).
CSU local service areas: https://www2.calstate.edu/apply/freshman/documents/csulocaladmission-serviceareas.pdf
For example if your CSU Capped weighted GPA is 3.6 and your SAT is around 1000, then your EI is (3.6 x 800)+ (1000)= 3880.
This EI would make you a competitive applicant for the majority of Cal states except for CSU Long Beach, Cal Poly Pomona, Cal Poly SLO, San Diego State along with some specific majors at San Jose State and CSU Fullerton.
Another option is to continue at your community college and apply as a transfer student to a UC, Cal state, Private CA college or even an OOS college.
UC’s and Cal states require a minimum 60 semester/90 quarter units to transfer and will not consider SAT/ACT scores in their transfer evaluation.
6 UC’s offer TAG (transfer admission guarantee) where if you complete the required courses with a specific GPA, you are guaranteed a spot at one of these 6 UC’s (UC Riverside, Merced, Santa Cruz, Davis, Irvine or Santa Barbara). Some majors are excluded from TAG.
The Cal states also have ADT degrees which guarantees a CSU campus if you complete the requirements.
There are many options out there so take some time for yourself and figure out what would work best for you.