What do You find to be Some of The Most Annoying Words or Phrases

“Literally”’when it’s used to mean “figuratively.” As in, “I literally died when I saw that.” (Comedian Gary Gulman has an excellent bit about this).

“Orientated” instead of “oriented” (unless you’re British). Like nails on a chalkboard for me.

Either of these “words” that seem to be used regionally (noticed while I was away at college):
Acrosst for across
Pamplet for pamphlet

And, another regional phrase:
“So don’t I.” Huh?? Do you or don’t you?

In the 80’s I really disliked the Wall Street phrase “crunch the numbers” but I’m used to it now.

Adding: “Girl mom” — used to describe a mother who has daughters. Ugh.

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It’s a running gag between my husband and my son to annoy me. I try not to react, because that just feeds the beast, but sometimes I just lose it. :crazy_face:

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Same here. DD had a friend from school who taught this to her, and why it’s said. She was, unfortunately, “at that age,” so there wasn’t much we could do. Suspending phone privileges did help! On the occasions where I did so, she asked me if really did suspend her cell phone connection. My response was “That’s what I said.” :innocent:

Thankfully, she (and hopefully many others) have grown out of it or will do so soon.

One I really hate is “Rest in Power”. Just really do not like that, please do not say that about me when I kick the bucket.

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YMMV (learned that here)

Benchmark

Low hanging fruit

FOMO

IKR

  • my bad --really annoys me from teens (especially my own). I don’t think that I’ve heard adults use it except on TV or in the movies.
  • impactful --while I know it is a real world, it just always sounds wrong to me perhaps because it is not a word that I heard that often until recently. Now, it just seems like I hear it all the time.

For some reason, I don’t particularly mind any of the annoying words and expressions that other posters mentioned, but I also don’t hear them used very often.

Recently at a meeting, someone said, “the fact is…” too many times.
I finally said, “just because you are saying it does not make it a fact.”

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I actually like “you do you.”
My boss said that to me one day when I asked him what he wanted me to do at a meeting that he wanted me to go to.

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What I hate is someone stating or providing information on their pronounS. I am happy to use any pronoun you would like. And please tell me that ONE. But once you tell me it’s “ she” why do you need to tell me “her” or if “ he” then why also say “him”. I can figure that out for myself. I understand how that works. Of course if you actually use two …meaning “I use both female and gender neutral pronouns” feel free to say “she/they”(I can deal with it being a singular pronoun). But if you stick to one gender or only gender neutral what are you telling me the grammar rules for?

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I like to use British idioms that Americans don’t understand, so I’m sorry to hear that people over here are finally catching on to that phrase. But do Americans really take it the same way as Brits do?
To me it’s essentially the same as “With the greatest respect…” which means “I think you are an idiot”

I’ve used most of the phrases in the table linked above at one time or another, but I was more pleased with myself for using “You might very well think that, but I couldn’t possibly comment” in a client meeting in NY 20 years ago, before any Americans had heard of House of Cards. It went down very well too…

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The way Southerners use “Well bless your heart!”

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Yes exactly

“Deal with it!”
“LatinX”
“Oooooooh-kay” (OK with a long, drawn out Oh)
“Unhoused” instead of “homeless”. -

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I had a pit in my stomach. No, you felt something in the pit of your stomach.
Something played a factor. No, something was a factor or it played a part.

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I agree with so many of these!

Another one for me is “Gotcha”. Especially when the person says it in a series of 2 or 3, as in “Gotcha, Gotcha” in response to you telling them something. Nails on a chalkboard for me!

Impactful!!! YEsssssssss, this is just the laziest nonword invention. Ugh.

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Usually it’s words that are overused in the media/social media.

Woke - seems to be used (at least around me) as a substitute for libtard. Oh add that to the list.

Disrespected

Those probably lead the list at the moment. I used to hate “app” when they first came out. Now it seems normal and fine. And same with hoodie. Just call it a sweatshirt or a hooded sweatshirt. But it doesn’t drive me crazy anymore.

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I hate office jargon. Here are two I heard recently:

Play well in the sandbox
Wrapped around the axle

Just say what you mean!

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What DOES “wrapped around the axle” mean?

Another one: Not in my wheelhouse.

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