<p>I haven't read every post on this thread, but get the general idea of what the OP is asking and some of the responses received. Thought I would try to relate our story as briefly as possible.</p>
<p>H is a general internist of close to 30 years. Went 4 years undergrad, 3 years post grad - decided research wasn't for him, he really wanted to be a physician, packed up and left campus without finishing his "paper". His mother nearly had the vapors. Put on the alternate list for his first choice med school and attended his second choice. Did a 1 year internship, 3 year residency, and stayed on an extra 6 months for some extra (unpaid) training in GI, cardiology, and pulmonary. H is at this point close to 32 years old and ready to practice! Returned to his hometown in a solo practice (where I was his only employee) for 3 years. Asked to join an internal med group in town in 1985 - and fast forward to today. </p>
<p>We have a senior in the honors program at our stateU who (if she keeps up her sterling record) will graduate with a 4.0, with honors from both her department and the U at large. She started out as a bio major with med aspirations, but decided midstream that really wasn't what she wanted. Completely changed course and will graduate with a communications degree. H still laments, "She would have been a great doctor". I have to remind him that she will be a great something else, though I really do think it broke his heart.</p>
<p>Freshman D is a science "of some type" major, taking the premed prereqs, and seems (at this point) to be heading straight on towards that goal. She attends a top 12 private school and is challenged to the max. We ask her repeatedly if she is sure this is what SHE wants and she adamently says YES!</p>
<p>I think that simply, that is the key. Is it what your student wants? If it is a passion that burns in them - not for the money, not for the prestige, not even because "they want to help people", then they are on the right path. My husband gets up at 5 am every day and is at the hospital by 5:40, then off to the office. Every day is a 12 hour day (at least) and he loves every minute of it. He loves the problem solving aspect of medicine, he loves that he continues to learn something new daily, he loves the challenge of trying to use all the resources at hand (his own and those of other people in the medical field) to assist someone in obtaining optimum health. If a bank or insurance provider asks on a form how much his income was the previous year, he has to ask me to look it up - he really has no idea! That is not to say that he doesn't enjoy the fruits of what his passion provide him.</p>
<p>As I read through the posts on this thread, I related some of the information to him. I asked, "Do you think we should try to dissuade younger D from persuing medicine?" In his ever calm and well thought out manner he replied, "First of all, if it is someone's passion, there is no way you could dissuade them. I think there will always be a good living to be made in medicine, but saying that, money should be the last reason you go into medicine. I wouldn't change my choice for a second - I love what I do".</p>