<p>I've got a HS junior who doesn't know what he wants to be when he grows up. All he knows is that he wants to help people. </p>
<p>Since 3rd grade he's always talked about public safey or law enforcement (police/fire/FBI). Since 8th grade, he's found psychology (counseling) intriguing. And now that he's addicted to House, M.D., (TV show) medicine is on the short list. </p>
<p>I don't mind that he's undecided. At barely 16 I want him to keep many options open. I'm just at a loss for how to guide him. For example, he hated honors Bio and vowed to never take AP. But, if medicine turns out to be more than a phase he's going thru, he'll probably need a taste of AP Bio as a senior. If I say so out loud, I bet he'll drop medicine like a hot potato.</p>
<p>Then there's the college search. Budgeting for grad school or med school will limit the undergrad search. But, if he's not serious about Psy.D. or M.D. then we don't have to be so stingy. I can't force him to decide now. Likewise, no one's forcing us to pay for an advanced degree; we really don't have to think that far.</p>
<p>We were focusing on LACs, with a few U's in the mix. He's already ruled out UMCP, and the other Maryland state schools are nothing to write home about (except St. Mary's, which we lump in with the LACs).</p>
<p>He's done the career profiles at collegeboard and with the GC, etc., and the results are consistent: compassionate, heroic, helping professions. So at least we know we're in the right ball park. Just can't take it any further. </p>
<p>Advice?</p>
<p>Thanks.</p>