<p>Ok, so I know this is kind of late but I figure if you find this it might be of use, being one of the females at Rose.</p>
<p>I'm going to be a sophomore in the fall, by the way.</p>
<p>First off, great schools you applied too.. I was considering Lehigh myself! :)</p>
<p>Here are my responses to your questions:</p>
<p>1). You will still have a social life if you don't drink or smoke. While drinking is prevalent at Rose and a lot of people partake in this.. activity, there are plenty of other things to do if you don't want to. People are very understanding of your lifestyle choices and aren't going to criticize you if you choose not to.</p>
<p>2). Yes, there are plenty of guys around, but you can make them as involved in your life as you want to. I personally hung out with mostly guys but that was my choice. However, by the end of the year I developed friendships with a few girls and I'm glad I did. It's good to have a good mix of guy and girl friends.</p>
<p>And no, guys will NOT be fawning over you all the time. Yes, you are a hot commodity but frankly you're all there to learn and do well so academically you're seen as one of their peers, which is exactly how it should be. Guys at Rose, however, are more contrite and polite than one would expect. I've almost never had to open my own door and my guy friends will do almost anything for me, whether it be to cheer me up with a funny movie or go out and buy me oreos and milk if I'm craving it (2 examples of things that happened this year).. yes, girls are appreciated on campus, but just avoid contracting "Rose Goddess Syndrome" and understand that you have to coexist with them for the same reason: to get a great education.</p>
<p>3). First off, let me talk this up.. Do Recruitment!!!! I am involved in Greek Life myself so of course I am going to talk up joining in. However, even if you don't think it's for you, go to the Panhel events and the recruitment parties! It's a great way to meet other girls on campus since there's so few of us.. and if you like one of the 3, then you're gaining a bunch of great girls as your sisters!!! Greek life at Rose is totally different compared every school so give us a chance, we're pretty cool :)</p>
<p>Okay, now for your actual question.. like I said before, there is a life for those who don't party and stuff. And enough people are GDI (not in a fraternity / sorority) that you don't need to be in one to make friends. However, you will find that your group of friends will be a mix of every walk of life at Rose - the 3 sororities, the 8 fraternities, the different organizations, clubs, your classes, etc.. you'll find your niche soon enough.</p>
<p>4). Rose might be a little weird to come to at first. I know that I found it weird - I came from a tiny all-girls Catholic high school - but you get used to it after awhile. It's a good place to be as a woman, I promise :)</p>
<p>Good luck, and see you in the fall :)</p>
<p>PS - Mills - the guy:girl ratio is about 4:1. My class in the fall had 82 girls out of about 450+ students - about 6:1. However, I think the freshman class upcoming has 100+ girls in it.. better than in the past :) are you a male or female, and are you coming in the fall?</p>