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thanks -- I admit, I am not a sport person, so the whole idea of recruiting a hockey play for 9th grade seems unreal!
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<p>On the guys side of hockey, it is rare to be recruited as a 9th grader. Generally, there aren't many 9th graders who have the physical maturity to compete with 18 and 19 year old Seniors and PGs at least to the extent that they get scholarshipped. There are a few who can make the varsity squad, but often see only a couple shifts a game.</p>
<p>With girls, most of them have just about reached (if not reached) their full physical size. Yes, there is still some strength to be built, but the physical difference between a 14 and 19 year old girl isn't as great. Plus the girls game is not nearly as physical as the guys (but trust me it isn't for the meek), so the physical differences that do exist are not as important as in the guys game.</p>
<p>My D was a recruited 9th grade hockey player at multiple schools and played as an only varsity goalie her entire freshman season. Her coach (and at least one other coach who recruited her) have told me they think she will play Div 1 college hockey. Personally, I'd rather see her play Div 3 if the school match (I didn't say prestige) is better. Most of the Div 1 schools are large, general purpose State U's. Hockey will be helpful with college admissions and even in Div 3, if her academic stats are competitive, she will be at the front of the line for any merit FA available and will probably see a better mix of grants to loans.</p>
<p>Did it make a difference in Prep School FA? I would say that without her athletic talent, she probably wouldn't be attending a boarding school, as there are plenty of other well intellegent, deserving kids to get FA.</p>
<p>Is it fair? One thing I've learned is that everyone has a different opinion of what is fair. My job in life as a parent is to get my children the best education I can, behaving in a legal and ethically defendable manner. If schools where my D can get a better education than her local public offer their product at a price I am willing to spend, I am obliged to accept the offer at face value. </p>
<p>If you want to get really crazy, I know of a girl who will be attend Shattuck St. Mary in Faribault, MN next year as an 8th grader to play. Her parents are fairly well off, so FA isn't a concern, but this girl demonstrates that with girls sports, the playing field is more level with freshmen.</p>