<p>I have two kids that share the same sport. This is the best way I can describe their school search: K1 wanted the elite all-inclusive luxury sports package while K2 grabbed his backpack and went off-road.</p>
<p>On a “Safety School” thread (of all places- Sorry OP!!), I shared how K2 chose a Gem over a highly selective “Dream” largely because he wanted the freedom and lifestyle to pursue his sport outside of school. He wanted the best of all worlds and I think he found it- and for the record, so does he.</p>
<p>I don’t want anyone to think his school search was based on sports. It wasn’t. It was a very important piece, but overall comfort and academics always came first. His home coach was wonderful and strongly reinforced those two critical factors. Life first- sports second.</p>
<p>And (of course) as a family, we had numerous conversations about being content/happy at a school even if (God forbid) there’s an injury or he decides to leave the sport. We made sure he weighed everything carefully (including potential burn out)- even up until the last second before we mailed the deposit check.</p>
<p>I think when a young person is surrounded by older world class athletes (that’s not meant to sound snooty) they become more keenly aware of the window they have to become dominant in their sport. K2, (perhaps more than K1) saw this and came up with a plan so he could work toward his goals. </p>
<p>We knew we had to find a BS Athletic Director (and coaches) who were flexible (tall order) and a BS team that was competitive enough, so he wouldn’t feel like it wasn’t a meaningful experience and he was just spinning his wheels. And (because he trains/competes year-round) he also needed other sports that would compliment his chosen sport- for conditioning purposes mostly.</p>
<p>For clarity, K2 does participate in all school required sports and with the AD’s help stays within training quidelines at all times. We’re extremely careful about that.</p>
<p>He doesn’t feel like he’s comprimised anything (Dream vs Gem- or wahtever), and so far everything has worked out very well. Better than I imagined- that’s for sure. He is VERY tired, but I know he’s happy and very grateful for all the support. </p>
<p>From a parent’s perspective, I’m happy, too. It’s been a crazy journey and a complete leap of faith, but it really has worked out. I’d rather see K2 do it his way now then live with some measure of regret later on. We all know about risks and benefits- so we’ll just have to see how it goes…</p>
<p>All the best, SevenDad!</p>