What is the greatest amount of emotional harm you've inflicted on someone?

<p>What did you do?
How did you feel?
Were you surprised that you were capable of inflicting it on someone?</p>

<p>Do you still feel bad about it? Do you still feel that your actions were justified? And how strongly do you feel that?</p>

<p>And no, I'm not thinking about it. Rather, I was the target of it, so I'm just asking questions.</p>

<p>I like these posts. :)</p>

<p>Umm, in fifth grade, I got in a fight with my best friend at the time, and I called her a “poppy-eared freak” (one of her ears kind of sticks out). I feel really bad now when I think about it. I think that’s the meanest thing I’ve ever said to someone.</p>

<p>In kindergarten, I told a girl that I didn’t want to play with her because she was fat…</p>

<p>I still feel like a monster.</p>

<p>There was this absolutely ungodly annoying kid who sat next to me in every class in the 6th grade (he would do stuff like get drumsticks out and play on his desk, sing out loud, yell cartoon shoe quotes.) I eventually got so fed up with it I started making cruel comments about his weight, mom (typical 6th grade stuff). Eventually a lot of other kids joined in, and he responded by getting more and more obnoxious. It kinda got out of hand and I stopped when I realized how f’d up other kids had gotten, but the annoying kid just secluded himself increasingly and making it worse for himself.</p>

<p>Yeah, I still feel bad about it, but that kid is still unbelievably annoying.</p>

<p>i was an absolutely terrible older sister when my brother and i were younger. </p>

<p>also this past year i completely blew up at one of my friends. she does have a lot of problems [in the way she treats people and her maturity levels, but we’re not going into that]. I have to constantly mother her [she’s more than a year older than me] and she didn’t want to hook up with this guy that she still wanted to hang out with [he’s pushy and i actually really dislike him for various reasons] so she made me tag along to essentially be her cøck blocker. anyway, we made up and she promised do be better.</p>

<p>What did you do? I just stopped being friends in 7th grade with someone by not choosing them to go to an ice cream party that I won in a raffle. He got really angry and was insulted.</p>

<p>How did you feel? Satisfied</p>

<p>Were you surprised that you were capable of inflicting it on someone? Yes</p>

<p>**Do you still feel bad about it? Do you still feel that your actions were justified? And how strongly do you feel that? ** I don’t feel bad. This person turned out to be a very bitter and vengeful person who has a bad attitude and is mean to everyone. He often makes fun of other people and after middle school his friends also found better people to be friends with.</p>

<p>Also I push strollers with babies in them off cliffs.</p>

<p>Emotionally damaging someone…</p>

<p>Criticizing their programming skills, saying they sucked and needed to step their **** up. Said they were not good enough and were a ■■■■■■.</p>

<p>Caused some crying, a little tense emotional period.</p>

<p>I felt bad after about 2 months, and I told the girl I was an ******* to her. Today actually. And she’s now the girl I want to pursue. Good friend of mine.</p>

<p>I found out a person who I befriended earlier this year, was very promiscuous. She was really cool, and didn’t seem like that type. Well my class took this trip to Boston, and during the hotel stay she had a threesome with two guys. Apparently, her past caught up with her, and everyone found she hooked up with many guys in school. I didn’t find out till weeks later. During those weeks everyone gave her the cold shoulder and I was her only friend. I found out, and immediately stopped talking to her, I didn’t wanted to be associated with her. When she came to me at lunch I was with my other friends I said “what do you want slut”, she cried and walked off. I was really angry that day, I should have never said that. To this day, I feel horrible for saying that, and I want to apologize come this September. If she comes back.</p>

<p>My little brother used to have these normal little-kiddy-type temper tantrums, and one of those times I snapped that he was born defective and would grow up to be a serial killer everyone hated. Ugh…and that he didn’t have any friends because no one wanted to play with someone who never got invited to birthday parties. :(</p>

<p>I think I might have done something wrong because he didn’t tell on me and just kind of went quiet after that. Like, two years ago. He’s still immature now, though, so I assume he’s fully recovered lol.</p>

<p>^^Assuming you were both juniors at the time: She had a threesome as a junior in high school? Holy &$%.</p>

<p>2 years ago I hooked up with a guy because of a stupid bet I had made with my friends, and kinda pretended I was really liking him when actually I wasn’t at all.
I told him about the bet and said that if it wasnt for that i would have never ever hooked up with him, and he got really really down…</p>

<p>I regret doing the bet, but I don’t feel so bad about the boy cuz after that he started acting so strangely, sending me love letters and hate letters, and just NEVER leting it go (He still e-mails me and sends me facebook messages from times to times), so I kinda feel that maybe he has always been a bit messed up…</p>

<p>In middle school I “dated” this guy and we eventually broke up and I was so angry at him about it, I said some really horrible things (which he retaliated twofold, might I add), and eventually he completely cut himself off from me, blocking my email and phone number. After about a year and a half I started feeling really bad about the things that I had said, but since he was at a different school, I didn’t know how to make amends. This was pre-facebook, and calling or email was out of the question, so I found his address on the envelope for a letter he had sent me at camp while we were together, and I contacted him the old fashioned way. We actually repaired our friendship through a snail-mail correspondence. I even tried to win him back. Which failed.</p>

<p>We both still feel really bad about being so evil to each other, but now we’re really good friends, and he recently came out as gay. So my years of obsession over him were wasted.</p>

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Hey, that’s below the belt.</p>

<p>^My program works just fine. :></p>

<p>^^ When their stuff wasn’t up to par, I criticize. I was an ******* to her, more or less because I knew she was talented.</p>

<p>^ And now you want to date her? Good luck…</p>

<p>^ We’ve reconciled, heavily. The girl is too cheery to be down for long. She’s upbeat.</p>

<p>12 .</p>

<p>^No 10char?</p>

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<p>no .</p>