What makes a guy/girl irresistible to you?

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<p>I just read Manhattan75's Deal Breaker thread, so I thought I would start one on....deal-making? (yeah, just pulled that one out of my ***, I don't really know the term for it) </p>

<p>So what (specific if possible) characteristics about guys/girls drive you crazy (in a good way)?I'll start my listing some of mine: </p>

<p>-His attitude. I once met a guy who was just charismatic and exuded (oh gosh this is going to sound cheesy as hell) a "cool" feeling whenever he was around. The way he walked, the way he carried himself, was VERY attractive because it was confident but not cocky. Ahhh :)
-Any guy that loves to make people laugh (mean humor not included), or isn't afraid to laugh at himself
-talldarkhandsome:D
-intense eyes. </p>

<p>Mmk now let's see if this thread was a good idea or just a crazy 1am bust. xP</p>

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<p>How about a 6’5 fella who’s been called the 300 pound Mark Sanchez?</p>

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<p>Orson you could be in adult films</p>

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<p>a girl who plays video games!!!11</p>

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<p>-Good and compatible personality (I can’t describe this with a post. I know it when I see it though)
-Nice face
-Decent chest, doesn’t have to be big but can’t be flat
-Decent behind
-Generally the biggest I like a girl is Lindsay Lohan in Mean Girls… bigger than that ehh not so much
-Red hair is always a plus
-Red hair and green eyes is even better</p>

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<p>…</p>

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<p>don’t tell him until 10:36 PM PDT (when he can no longer edit his post)</p>

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<p>This thread is too serious for me right now. If I could muster up every little serious molecule in my body, I would say that an irresistible women would be one that is incredibly brilliant and personable - those being the primary qualities. Good looks comes in after that. Good looking women are a dime a dozen these days. Smart and independent thinking ones aren’t.</p>

<p>If going by physical attributes? Face > hair > eyes > legs… I guess? I am actually not too crazy particular about breasts. Any size is fine by me, so long as they aren’t fake.</p>

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<p>Oh god, fakes are an instant game-breaker. Sort of. Natural is SO much better.</p>

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<ul>
<li>Absolutely 100% has to be decently taller than me. I know it sounds shallow but I just cannot date a short guy. </li>
<li>slender-muscular look.</li>
<li>similar sense of humor, so important.</li>
<li>charasmatic.</li>
<li>will go on bike rides (cycling/moutain/motorized) with me.</li>
<li>has two balls and one p*nis. :)</li>
</ul>

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<p>-Intelligence
-Good sense of humor
-Kindness
-Ability to keep up a good conversation
-Nerdiness (not a necessity - I just have always had a thing for nerdy guys!)</p>

<p>I also really like red hair, guys who are short in height, green eyes, etc., but none of those are necessities.</p>

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<p>6ft
Dark hair,tan skin and blue eyes
Dimple
Built body(V-shape, rockhard abs, big arms, nice pecs etc.)
Same sense of humor as mine
Confident
Into fitness and outdoorsy, stay active type of person
Has hobbies and interest other than just partying. Like knows how to play an instrument, sing, dance etc.
Athletic. Into sports
Smart
and traits like honest, very secure, positive attitude, social, reasonable respects me, and cultured.</p>

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<p>Dang, some people are so picky! Haha.</p>

<p>Pretty, charismatic, and talented are ideal qualities to me :D.</p>

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<p>for ladies:</p>

<ul>
<li>“Cutesy” look</li>
<li>Well mannered</li>
<li>Understanding</li>
<li>Caring</li>
<li>Nice waist and behind. (lets face it, a girl might have a great a$$, but if her waistline makes her look like an unidentified flying object…not a good sight. And yes, I am a a$$ man more than a boob man)</li>
<li>nice hair</li>
<li>good sense of humor</li>
</ul>

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<p>CC doesn’t censor ass, does it?
Edit: No, it doesn’t</p>

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<p>Really?? We have freedom of ASS? ASS ASS ASS ASS ASS</p>

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<p>I lol’d at the “dimple” requirement</p>

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<p>Hmm…

  1. A guy that I can easily be friends with (laugh, hang out with etc)
  2. Tall-ish, darker hair/tan skin
  3. Guys who are athletic/love to talk about sports
  4. Baseball players/guys who like baseball (they are just extra-appealing to me :P)
  5. Not emotional/overly-sappy
  6. Ambitious, involved in a lot of clubs/activities
  7. Guys who can sing/play instruments/have good taste in music/like going to concerts
  8. Good hair
  9. Outgoing/Social</p>

<p>(none of these are requirements of course, but the more a guy has these qualities the more appealing they are to me)</p>

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<p>Haha oh my bad, I thought CC was more PG-13 than it actually is. So now I can say I pulled things out of my ass safely without fear of retribution…pretty awesomee :P</p>

<p>Hmm I feel like a lot of people are just listing general qualities that they look for in a guy or girl–which is great and all, but I think I meant to talk more along the lines of one or two things about someone that you’ve encountered that have pushed you over the border to liking that person/wanting to date them, if that makes sense.</p>

<p>And for everyone else-haha don’t worry I’m not surprised that there are certain shallow/superficial aspects to your replies (there were def some in mine too), because after all we do judge often by looks, and if you don’t like looking at a person, how can you date them? :)</p>

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<p>My girlfriend has this very enviable appreciation for everything. She’s actually quite resilient and very few things get her down. She’s almost always in a good mood and usually quite happy. </p>

<p>So yeah, I think it’s her joyful and adventurous personality.</p>