What matters most in a guy/girl?

<p>as a girl for a guy i would prefer…:</p>

<p>-personality that matches mine well. I should be able to just talk to them like a friend
-height (shouldn’t be shorter than me! I’m only 5’3!). Like them noticeably taller than me in a 4 inch hell lol… So guys who are over 5’9. I’m not going to give up my heels just because the guy’s too short.
-intelligence/education
-kindness
-proportion (which kinda goes along with height. I love taller sorta skinny guys that have really great proportions all over)
-waist line (I used to suck at drawing waists so I need some models… I started staring at guy’s waists ROFL)
-fit but not muscular… but not that much body fat on their arms or stomach. >_<
-good sense of style (especially if they aren’t naturally good looking. A guy who can dress well without really even caring… is hot. If he takes more time than me to get ready in the morning… that can be a problem)
-and this would be more of my parent’s request- religion.</p>

<p>so…basically most girls fit the descriptions above if they had a bag over their heads</p>

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<p>paradox, IMO.</p>

<p>great proportions = mesomorph
skinny ectos look like shi.t</p>

<p>Male or female - no preference here.
Important Information
The main transcending quality is that whoever you are, you have to hug me. Everything else is compromizeable.
Unimportant Randomly Generated Preferences
If smart, then nondefensive.
If knowledgeable, then eager to spread the gospel of your mind (and absorb mine).
If mentally average, then really strange.
If stupid, then must be like some sort of love-based bleeding-heart liberal.</p>

<p>If socially prominent, then caring and responsible.
If socially average, then reasonably nonconformist.
If dorky, then loyal and enthusiastic.
If socially conformist/evangelist, then just go away.</p>

<p>If chubby, then humorous and if big enough, will let me sleep on them.
If frail, then meek or charismatic.
If physically average, then passionate about something.
If very fit, then patient with me.</p>

<p>Big ego - megalomania, please. I’d like to meet my match.
average self-image - knowledgeable (that does not mean smart)
very humble - my sweet little idiot
self-deprecating - influenceable</p>

<p>And so it goes…</p>

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[QUOTE=One of those Persons who made up the Bible.]
Love suffers long.

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<p>lmao ILikeBigButtz sorry about forgetting to mention the “rear”, how could I ever leave that out right? So are you saying that if a girl had a nice enough rear then you don’t care if she’s flat chested?</p>

<p>Depends if were just hooking up or if its a gf
hooking up:
Ass
boobs
face
personality
smart</p>

<p>gf:
personality
face
smart
ass
boobs</p>

<p>ass (usually means good bod)
face
hair
for some reason shoulders
personality i guess</p>

<p>For girls.</p>

<p>Starting with physical, because that’s the first thing I disqualify girls with. They have to have a nice face and head. Most girls who aren’t packing a ton of extra weight generally can have a pretty nice face if they want to. The biggest thing is the teeth. I can’t stand girls who don’t take care of their teeth. Straight teeth are preferred, but I understand not everyone can afford dental care, so just generally white, brushed teeth are all that is absolutely required. I don’t like girls with rotting stumps in their mouth. </p>

<p>Second on the head would be hair. I like girls that take care of their hair. There is no specific way a hair has to be, although I generally like it down more than up, but it’s definitely not a disqualifer, and messy hair looks good too as long as it’s not all frizzy. If a girl knows how to properly integrate highlights into their hairs, thats good too. Blonde highlights in brown hair, pink highlights in blonde hair, and black highlights in blonde hair are my favorites.</p>

<p>Eyes are important. Eyes seem to tell a lot about a person. If someone can’t give me eye contact , or looks shifty in the eyes, that’s generally a disqualifier. Girls who know how to use eye shadow correctly (example, Avril Lavigne) have a big plus going for them.</p>

<p>Then the next big thing is they have to be in some semblance of shape. That is not to say be in super shape, super skinny or anything, but they can’t be fat. Two reasons for this. First off, fat girls just aren’t that attractive. It’s the truth. Secondly, I have a problem with someone who is just too lazy or doesn’t care to stay in some form of shape. After I marry a girl and she has the first kid, then she can get fat. Until then, she has to stay in shape.</p>

<p>Personality wise, the girl has to be a loving, sweet, loyal girl, who generally cares for me. The girl needs to be open sexually. She needs to be fun to be around, like music, like to dance. And very importantly, like to cuddle.</p>

<p>She doesn’t have to be a genius, but she has to have some purpose to her life. Not just be some person whose life is devoid of meaning. Someone who isn’t just a social robot…or to say, someone who all they are is a social robot, and you find nothing when you dig beyond that.</p>

<p>She has to be able to by my princess sometimes, while being my queen at others.</p>

<p>Not completely necessary, but I like alpha females. That’s a plus for me, but not for all.</p>

<p>That’s about it. Those aren’t necessarily all of the qualifiers for what it takes to date me. But taken the full list into consideration, is what it would be to qualify to date me, and only minor parts of this is my qualifers for dating. I give all sorts of people a chance to date me, that’s the purpose to date someone, to get to know someone better and have fun, so you can see if that person has what you’re looking for.</p>

<p>good looks are just a given</p>

<p>coming from a girl, for a guy–
tall & thin, takes care of himself but no huge muscles please
NICE FACE most important
brown hair</p>

<p>Was I the first person to mention race?</p>

<p>I don’t find it racist at all. I very rarely am attracted to guys with light skin. Some people are rarely attracted to people with curly hair or high cheekbones. I’m certainly not going to apologize for it. Strangely, I don’t have the same issue with girls.</p>

<p>I hate girls with ugly teeth. That is the first thing I look at and if her teeth are yellow or all messed up, I just run away…</p>

<p>:) I love teeth.</p>

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To me mesomorph is not a great proportion. I dont want a stick, I want a lean muscular guy lol. I really hate bulky guys >_< eew. When i talk about proportion it’s mostly about height and the head size. Like I would want them to be at least 7 heads tall to 8 heads tall (I’m an art major so I just find that attractive to look at lol)</p>

<p>like i think this is a pretty good proportion :smiley:
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<p>the only guys who are bulky are that way because of weightlifting. mesomorphs are not bulky naturally. they are broad shouldered, decently muscled, and lean. They get bulky easily if they lift weights and eat enough.</p>

<p>and lol @ the guy you posted being lean and muscular. he’s lean, but that’s it. i thought that you don’t want a stick? he is one. a true wimpy ectomorph.</p>

<p>edit: you’re in korea. that explains it.</p>