<p>For girls.</p>
<p>Starting with physical, because that’s the first thing I disqualify girls with. They have to have a nice face and head. Most girls who aren’t packing a ton of extra weight generally can have a pretty nice face if they want to. The biggest thing is the teeth. I can’t stand girls who don’t take care of their teeth. Straight teeth are preferred, but I understand not everyone can afford dental care, so just generally white, brushed teeth are all that is absolutely required. I don’t like girls with rotting stumps in their mouth. </p>
<p>Second on the head would be hair. I like girls that take care of their hair. There is no specific way a hair has to be, although I generally like it down more than up, but it’s definitely not a disqualifer, and messy hair looks good too as long as it’s not all frizzy. If a girl knows how to properly integrate highlights into their hairs, thats good too. Blonde highlights in brown hair, pink highlights in blonde hair, and black highlights in blonde hair are my favorites.</p>
<p>Eyes are important. Eyes seem to tell a lot about a person. If someone can’t give me eye contact , or looks shifty in the eyes, that’s generally a disqualifier. Girls who know how to use eye shadow correctly (example, Avril Lavigne) have a big plus going for them.</p>
<p>Then the next big thing is they have to be in some semblance of shape. That is not to say be in super shape, super skinny or anything, but they can’t be fat. Two reasons for this. First off, fat girls just aren’t that attractive. It’s the truth. Secondly, I have a problem with someone who is just too lazy or doesn’t care to stay in some form of shape. After I marry a girl and she has the first kid, then she can get fat. Until then, she has to stay in shape.</p>
<p>Personality wise, the girl has to be a loving, sweet, loyal girl, who generally cares for me. The girl needs to be open sexually. She needs to be fun to be around, like music, like to dance. And very importantly, like to cuddle.</p>
<p>She doesn’t have to be a genius, but she has to have some purpose to her life. Not just be some person whose life is devoid of meaning. Someone who isn’t just a social robot…or to say, someone who all they are is a social robot, and you find nothing when you dig beyond that.</p>
<p>She has to be able to by my princess sometimes, while being my queen at others.</p>
<p>Not completely necessary, but I like alpha females. That’s a plus for me, but not for all.</p>
<p>That’s about it. Those aren’t necessarily all of the qualifiers for what it takes to date me. But taken the full list into consideration, is what it would be to qualify to date me, and only minor parts of this is my qualifers for dating. I give all sorts of people a chance to date me, that’s the purpose to date someone, to get to know someone better and have fun, so you can see if that person has what you’re looking for.</p>