<p>Collegemom, I realize you’re against student loans. But bottomline, when you don’t have many other options how are you supposed to pay for college??</p>
<p>I’m very much against big loans for undergrads because of the difficulty to repay. The most I think most young adults can afford to borrow(in total for 4 years) is about half (maybe 3/4) of what they’ll likely be earning when they get their first real job. </p>
<p>If I remember correctly, you want to go out of state to a big public with all the full campus experience. The problem is this…Out of state publics are not going to help you meet the huge OOS costs. Your stats are not high enough for scholarships.</p>
<p>I thought private schools were more generous with aid. Are they not? I know someone who goes to the university of Indianapolis(private) whose parents don’t make that much more than mine, how is that??</p>
<p>I would guess that that student had stats that were high enough to warrant a generous aid package. Perhaps that student is a URM. You don’t seem to understand that financial aid is NOT awarded just by need. Schools are not charities. They give their money to students that help THEM look good. Students who have high stats and/or help with diversity numbers are highly desired by the school. </p>
<p>So, if a school has 2 applicants from low-income families, and one child has high stats and one child has modest stats, then the student with that high stats will likely see bigger grants and scholarships in her aid package. Conversely, the student with the modest stats may see more loans or even a big gap in her aid package. </p>
<p>Typically, the private schools are generous to students with strong stats. </p>
<p>I’m looking for actual SUGGESTIONS</p>
<p>You have a choice…expect realistic advice or expect “pie in the sky” suggestions. We’ve tried giving you realistic advice, and you’re not happy. So, will giving you unrealistic suggestions make you happy? OK…here’s some…Harvard, Stanford, UChicago, Yale, Notre Dame. </p>
<p>I’m trying to show how absurd it is to give suggestions that aren’t reasonable. It’s just as unreasonable for me to suggest super reach schools as it is for me to suggest schools that will not be affordable.</p>