<p>Late to this thread, but we faced a very similar situation in our house. DS loved St Olaf and it was his top choice for awhile. He was accepted to Williams, visited, and decided without question, that was where he wanted to go. Financially, it will be tough but doable for us, yet the St Olaf merit offers were quite extraordinary, and the school is a relatively close car ride away. Williams is a looooong car ride or flight, but I know in my heart it is the right place for him to grow intellectually and in other ways. </p>
<p>Mini, I know you are not so keen on Williams, but my son absolutely felt like it is the best fit for him.</p>