@Ranothil
I have been accepted into both NYU and UR, as I applied to only both out of the three. I have chosen UR, and I have elaborated below as to why.
UR
if your looking for outstanding research opportunities, and committed to pursuing your goal of a PhD, the University of Rochester is a top-caliber research university. It’s a very-academia driven school producing Nobel winners, PhDs, etc. including 3 faulty members recently (just last year. Look up the Alumni, and you’ll see what I am referring to. It’s a mid-sized school, so it’s easier to exploit the endless opportunities. Your taught by faculty who have really distinguished themselves in academia, and the students are ready to follow their footsteps. The school is a small hidden gem (many call it the hidden ivy) in upstate NY, and has an excellent student-body, who are more cooperative and friendly than cutthroat. 90 percent of graduates continue pursuing their education in graduate school, especially in elite schools like Stanford, UC Berkley, and Harvard. You sound like a right fit for UR. I suggest you research further on this school, b/c it sounds like the perfect school for you, as you intend to do research. Their goal is to send students to top-grad school programs. You are free to ask me more questions, as I have researched this school extensively, and will be attending there in the fall.
NYU
The Tandon Campus in Brooklyn is a recently- merged school. It’s a more commuter school, and it didn’t feel like a traditional campus w/ a community. The school is excellent, and will land you great job opportunities, just like UR, but I believe it is less research-intensive. Generally speaking, NYU is a huge school, so I felt the lack of personalized attention. NYU is devoting a lot of money to the new Tandon building (maker-space, and 3D printing), and it does have outstanding facilities near West 4, but the actual location, just so you know, is separated from the primary campus in Washington Square Park. if your looking to dive into a job right after a graduation, then the NYU brand in engineering can land you the best jobs.
Both are excellent schools, and it’s a matter of preference. If your primary goal is research and a traditional community/campus feel, go to UR. NYU is equivalent to UR academically and in terms of national rankings, (33 UR vs 30 NYU) but it is more of a commuter school.
NYU, RPI, UR are peer institutions, and as for me the decision was b/w UR and NYU. As I am intending to major in computer science on a pre-med track, I chose UR because of the outstanding research opportunities in a school with a smaller teacher to student ratio.