<p>My frd asked me to go clubbing yet I refused.......once again. Do you think this is weird? I am ok though not over-enthusiastic about going to house parties stuff like that...but clubs? </p>
<p>Now I am half way through college and have never been to a club in the town (very vibrant night life scene)</p>
<p>almost all ppl here go clubbing on weekends somehow. I really feel that I don't fit in....anyone with similar experiences?</p>
<p>You should definitely try going clubbing, atleast once. I used to think it was a waste of time and money, but boy was I wrong. The first time I went clubbing was one of the best nights of that year.</p>
<p>It's not weird.</p>
<p>It's just a personal choice- some people like it, some don't, some are in between- end of story.</p>
<p>I have friends who don't like to play pick-up sports, don't like to go to football games, some who don't like to go to parties, concerts, or movies. Who cares? Just do whatever you have fun doing.</p>
<p>Edit: It is a good idea to try clubbing if you haven't done it before. Then you'll know for sure whether you like it or not. Unless you are strongly opposed to going, I would suggest trying it once.</p>
<p>I love how half of the topics here about how people hate "partying", "clubbing", and the "hook-up culture". CC definitely attracts a certain type of college student...</p>
<p>for sho! ^</p>
<p>hmm, i can't wait to go clubbing in college. like everyone says, you should try it.</p>
<p>I'd like dancing that actually entails some finesse, and not merely sleazy grinding against one another.</p>
<p>It's a scene where girls go to get attention (the "I just like dancing" is BS - then you could just dance at home) and guys go to try and get laid. 99% of guys are unsuccessful in that regard, but they still go anyway.</p>
<p>The music is too loud which makes talking to new people hard. Some clubs have tables and you can sit with some of your friends and spend the whole time saying "what!?" back and forth. Clubs are too crowded, the booze is overpriced, the guys act like wannabe alpha ******s and the chicks like entitled attention you know whats. </p>
<p>The club scene is pretty retarded when you think about it. I can't stand it.</p>
<p>Being as introverted as I am, I don't like the idea of a loud, crowded place where I can't hear myself think. I haven't even liked the few concerts I've been to (with one exception, but that was because I loved the band) so I can't imagine liking clubs.</p>
<p>Clubs are boring/sketchy/and filled with girls who's anthems are "I Kissed A Girl" and anything by Cascada. The guys are equally as sketch.</p>
<p>Lounges are where it's at. Then again, I like getting dressy with the intent of not sweating my hair out by the end of the night.</p>
<p>I would (or used to) consider myself shy, but even at my small school I managed to find some folks that'll drive an hour away to club. Love the dancing, Love the grinding, and love to fall in bed early in the morning. Nope, you can't have a 'bleed your heart out' conversation with anyone, and I like that too. I have my own problems, I'm sure everyone else there does, but for those few hours forget them and have fun. </p>
<p>Live your life while you can I say. I fully intend to transfer to a bigger school so I can party more, go out more, and have more fun. I also fully intend to keep a good GPA and graduate with my degree.</p>
<p>Yeah, I'm really just not into the party scene. I don't like dancing and I don't drink so there's really nothing in it for me. I'd rather stay in and play Guitar Hero with my best friend. :)</p>
<p>Yeah I went clubbing tonight and although it was probably the funnest time I ever had clubbing my opinion still stands. A good party or just hanging out is better.</p>
<p>I agree with Russell. It's ok i guess but I'd MUCH rather save that money and just go to a party to chill, drink, and meet some new people. Unfortunately meeting new people is almost impossible at clubs unless you count meeting as skeezy strangers grinding on you. It's even more unfortunate that at my school, bars and clubs (esp clubs) are the only places to have fun on the weekends. I don't mind that scene once in awhile, but I really wish we had house parties.</p>
<p>If you're on the East Coast -- do APDA. All the intellectual rigours of collegiate debate, with drunken craziness at night.</p>
<p>I've been clubbing a few times. I prefer frat parties. Above that I prefer sitting with friends and drinking. I think I have some sort of social anxiety though where I don't like loud crowded places, but thats just me.</p>
<p>Anyone been to a drunken LAN party?</p>
<p>I'm about to try it soon. Then, I'll have an official opinion!</p>