<p>Sorry to say it, but the vast majority of people at my Ivy League school (myself included) did not pull ourselves up by our bootstraps to get here. Most of us come from middle, upper-middle or upper-class homes with parents who nurtured us, read to us, sent us to excellent schools and put a premium on our educations. Most of us went to high-quality public and private schools with college preparatory curricula, lots of extracurricular activities, and many caring teachers. To sum it up: we got here because we had the good fortune to be born into high-achieving families with attentive parents and an already-solid socioeconomic background.</p>
<p>Even my friends here who are first-generation college, or from low-income families tend to have caring, attentive parents who’ve opened as many doors for them as they possibly could. Parenting is likely the single most important factor in a child’s success, and who one’s parents are is an accident of birth. </p>
<p>One of the things I’ve learned here is that I’m not here just because I’m smart, determined, or hard-working. I’m also here largely because I’m really damn lucky. The “system” in the United States – the way our society is structured, socially and economically – has worked to my advantage in just about every way. </p>
<p>I will almost certainly earn a 6-figure salary when I finish my education, but I don’t feel “entitled” to what I earn in the same way the OP evidently does. Part of the reason I’ll be higher-income (just like my parents are) is because of the accident of my birth. There are just as many people stuck in the lower echelons of the American class structure who are there largely because of the accidents of their births, and it would be, in my opinion, truly reprehensible for me to stick my nose up at them and decry their work ethic (as compared to mine), when a huge factor in our socioeconomic difference is luck. </p>
<p>I strongly believe that I have a duty to “pay back” into the system that has helped me get where I am – as do the vast majority of us who comprise America’s upper classes. That’s why I’m ok with higher taxes – I feel that I’m paying back into the system part of what the system has “given” to me, to help ensure that those who got screwed over by it at least have a place to live and food on the table. Would I like to see a restructuring of our entitlement systems? You bet. But you won’t see me complaining about the very idea of paying taxes.</p>