<p>Well frankly, this thread is a bit disappointing. Of course everyone who picks a school will have nice things to say about it. What I would be more interested in is hearing about the admissions horror stories out there. Though admittedly mistakes are made at EVERY SCHOOL.</p>
<p>Let me start out with one:</p>
<p>We are southerners. We looked PRIMARILY at Southern Schools. We were picky on things because my D has particular interests and particular dislikes...not that it wont be a marvelous experience for someone else....not THAT kind of picky....just subjectively picky for herself. Not snotty and arrogant either. She didnt want a large state school. Not her thing. Sports is fun but not the center of her life, so being Div I wasnt key. However, knowing from friends what they had been through we applied to a couple of state schools, including UVa.</p>
<p>We toured campus ourselves and then again in a guided tour. Some things turned us on and some things turned us off. But one thing that really turned us on was the "speech" given by the admissions staff. They were very frank and honest. "Being out of state is hard because its uber selective of out of state kids." "We all makes mistakes. We try and avoid them, but yes, sometimes we get it wrong. Both on who we admit and who we reject or waitlist." "We look very hard at the complete application. If you have something to explain, its better that you do it and do it well, than say nothing and hope we dont see it." "Our application asks you to address any shortcomings you have and how you dealt with it."</p>
<p>In the end, they also contacted ANOTHER teacher who had not submitted a recommendation....a music instructor. But we didnt make the cut. It was disappointing though not the end of the world. But we certainly appreciated their candor. They will DEFINITELY be on the short list for graduate school.</p>
<p>And to IvyMom (if that post was for real and she was being honest...which I suspect was some person's idea of a practical joke....that went over badly.) The Ivy League was made up of the original 8 schools and was an athletic association, and had NOTHING to do with academics originally. The Ivy League historically was filled with Northeastern wealthy kids and prepsters. That has changed in 30 years or so, though a good number of feeder schools still send a bunch of kids there. But the Ivy League is not alone on having a perception of snobbery. There are PLENTY of schools across the country who can compete toe to toe on snob appeal and elitist admissions policies. I know about 6 kids in my immediate community who got into the Ivies this year. All of them are great kids, with most being from public schools. And the only complaints I heard about the admissions process were about Yale, and I think those comments were misplaced, frankly. </p>
<p>Going to college is all about fit, it seems to me. Because if you (your kid) has a good fit, they will have a better experience and do very well. Failure is a very sad thing. If its Virginia Tech, or Georgia Tech, or Ohio State, or Oberlin or Tufts or Dartmouth, or WashU or St. Louis U.....whatever it is....we ought to congratulate everyone and wish them the very best. </p>
<p>I only wish I could go back to college and learn some more....but who would want an old person like me sitting in a class of 20 year old kids? lol. When I was coming along, the vast majority of kids did NOT look out of state and most went to a local school.....regardless of gpa and SAT scores. Perhaps that was better....perhaps not. To me, ideally, a college would admit kids from all parts of the country and from all backgrounds and all kinds of scores....with a CLEAR mininum standard PUBLISHED for all to see. If 1400 is your cut off, SAY IT. If you admit 30 kids below that figure for statistical and other reasons, SAY IT. And I would abolish the "legacy" factor. I would also ask Congress to legislate a federal law that says that schools may NOT request or receive financial aid applications until AFTER they have completed their admissions process, making admissions TRULY needs blind. (Asking "what does your daddy do is cheating......" and it goes on at a LOT of schools.....!!!!!)</p>
<p>I went to a small private school ....not an elite school....and had a superb experience I would not trade for all the tea in china. </p>
<p>And yes, Virginia Tech is a beautiful campus, in a lovely city in a gorgeous part of the country, with superb faculty and caring administration. So for anyone going there, I congratulate you and wish you the best.</p>