<p>actually poor kids are penalized everyday for their parents choices
an extreme example but one that hits close to home because I know the family.
A girl is being raised by her maternal grandmother because her mother is a drug addict and her father is in jail. She didnt have much contact with her fathers family apparently because while father is African american his adoptive mother is white and there were trust/communication issues between the two sides of her family.
The maternal grandmother apparently didn't have a lot of luck raising her, and she( the girl) was murdered in a very sordid episode involving an ex boyfriend. Pretty much the ultimate price was paid for parental irresponsibility.</p>
<p>Nother example maybe more relevant to college admission
In general, suburban schools are better quality, however it is expensive to live in the suburbs, farther away from social and health services for low income families etc. In the city, you take what you get in the form of schools, and families may be too overwhelmed, not be able to work the system to get an effective education for their kids.</p>
<p>One boy in a city school, is very bright and his teachers are encouraging him to attend college, however, when he gets out of school everyday, he has to take care of his younger brothers and sisters, because his single mother is off with her "boyfriend". He starts slipping in his schoolwork, because the adults around him don't support him in continuing his education, and his peers also give him grief for trying to "act white".
Still he manages to apply to college and get accepted to a prestigous school that meets 100% of need.</p>
<p>He is a stronger student the colleges may reason, than a middle/uppermiddle kid from the suburbs with similar grades, that doesn't qualify for much need based aid, because he hasn't had the same starting place.
The kid in the suburbs, obviously has more financial resources if his family doesn't have need, it was easier to do well in school because he was better prepared and his family supported him. He doesn't have to take care of his siblings/work to pay bills after school, instead he might go to a Princeton summer camp, or participate in other extra curriculars after school.</p>
<p>One has a 15 speed gary Fisher bicycle with a Shimano derailleur, the other has a 15 yr old one speed bike from Walmart. If they compete in a 10 mile race and have equal times- who is probably the better rider?</p>
<p>Need based aid honors those students who have worked against all odds to succeed. If colleges want to offer merit aid to them fine, if colleges only want to offer need based aid, that should be their choice.
after all, the schools that offer only need based aid, are hardly hurting for applicants. Thousands of students every year, compete for the chance to pay full price. IF the college decides to offer aid to students who have shown that despite their background, they can benefit from all the resources a Harvard or a Uchicago has to offer- who are we to tell them,that they should reserve some of that money for students who have had more opportunities?</p>