<p>I can’t speak as a current engineering major in college, but how about a perspective from a 50-something electrical engineer? Like you, I went into engineering solely because I was good in math and science. I had no clue what I really wanted to do with my life. When my guidance counselor suggested engineering, my parents went with it. Lacking any strong opinion of my own, I just went with it too.</p>
<p>I’ve been to quite a few open houses at Science-Strong universities. My son is a HS Junior and wants a science future. The one good thing I’ll say is there are a lot more women interested in engineering than when I went to school. That being said, women are still the small minority, so competition will be high for the girls and that just makes things less enjoyable for men.</p>
<p>I’m not going to pull any punches. The curriculum was hard. There was little tutoring support back then, so we students relied on each other to study. Many courses were given by Ph.D students with accents in a very large amphitheater. We often had to teach ourselves the material. My social life with the ladies did suffer, but I made very close friendships with a handful of guys. </p>
<p>Chemical engineering is one of the paths more demanding than electrical. I found electrical to be tough. Obviously not un-doable tough, but we were studying… a lot! Back then it took a lot of self discipline, so having a group of guys you could count on with similar goals for the future helped a lot. Many people dropped out the first year. I understand there is way more academic support and counseling now-a-days to minimize the drop-out rate. I’d suggest finding the other guys like you… guys that aren’t geeks. Guys that were just smart / great in math and science / and found themselves as you do. That’s what I did and it really worked out well.</p>
<p>Although I had “girlfriends” in High School, I only had “girl” friends in college. I hope you understand that not-so-subtle difference. I just didn’t have time for the pursuit or time for the ensuing relationship a successful pursuit would bring. Also, I’ve always had high standards, so the few girls I was interested in were so hotly pursued that they either:
- had a new boyfriend every 90 days… yuck!
- “locked down” with a boyfriend and permanently unavailable so they could avoid being hit on all the time. I’ll bet it didn’t help much. </p>
<p>There was all the drinking, road trips, stress relief and high jinx you might expect, but I’ve got to tell you pretty women were scarce.</p>
<p>Now ask me if that sacrifice was worth it. Yes, yes, a thousand times yes! I did well in school and my first job was in one of the advanced system development groups in NCR. I’ve been well respected and decently well paid since I left school.</p>
<p>What my social life may have lacked in college, my young adult professional life made up for in spades and has paid dividends. The caliber of people I call my friends surprises me to this day. I have been truly blessed with this life.</p>
<p>After 30 years I still find my job interesting and challenging. I don’t think many people from other fields can make that same claim.</p>
<p>The financial rewards are good. I’d like to elaborate, but it would feel like bragging. Let’s just leave it as I have a wonderful family with few money problems. My lovely wife (inside and out) has been a stay-at-home mom. Things like selecting a school for my child has nothing to do with money. I’ve been able to provide nicely for my family.</p>