<p>Hiawatha:</p>
<p>Many thanks for that post. Fordham has been a sort of jewel of New York that was hidden and in the shadow of NYU and Columbia for years...but they recruited heavily under the radar from superb private and catholic high schools in the NewYork, New Jersey, and Connecticut suburbs and to some extent in Philadelphia and Boston (from the Jesuit Preps there). Now they are recruiting heavily outside the area with more than 70 kids this year accepted and attending Fordham from California, some from Texas, Washington State, Illinois, Wisconsin, the Carolinas, Virginia, Maryland, Delaware, Maine, on and on. The secret is out: Fordham is a superb school.</p>
<p>I heard from my D this am. She is absolutely having the time of her life. Academically, socially, spiritually. She said, "I made the right choice". And she had PLENTY of other choices...not to brag, but its just a fact.</p>
<p>She has met someone of very similar interests and caliber.....and character. Don't know if they will hit it off or not, but for now they are coffee mates and going to mass together.</p>
<p>I would never ever denigrate another schools academics. That is not only poor form and rude, it is often just simply wrong. I may or may not be correct on perceptions I formed from experience or other's anecdotal commentary. Emory is a superb...and I mean SUPERB school. Frankly, I have questions for that person who was denigrating Fordham and says he transferred to Emory. Big questions. But its simply not worth my time and energy to engage him anymore. He showed his true colors on another thread that were really rather nasty. Its clear he did not fit at Fordham and Fordham is better off without people like that. If indeed he is at Emory, which I wonder about, then I hope he finds his way, matures and that Emory has a positive impact on his outlook on life.</p>
<p>I am a professional. When I have participated in recruitment and hiring, I look FIRST for character. I presume, since they got in the door, that they have the mental horsepower to do the job. What I want to know is who they are as people and how they will conduct themselves under stress and when the chips are down. Anyone who berates a former employer or boss is automatically disqualified, I terminate the interview and usher them out the door. Period. One can say politely, "we had a difference of opinion on direction or responsibilities." That says it all and move on. No need to bash anyone.</p>
<p>My D is happier than I have seen her in years. And I mean that. I am hopeful it continues for four years. I told her, I was so happy as an undergrad I never wanted to leave! (not Fordham) And that I hoped she had a similar experience.</p>
<p>My hopes is that your daughter will also apply, be accepted, and attend Fordham University. Character counts. Big time.</p>
<p>God bless.</p>