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I am just fealling frustrated that I spend years working so hard and yet do not get paid off financially.
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<p>Welcome to the club.</p>
<p>We're on a major deadline right now, and it's crunch time until the deadline hits. I'm still sitting at my desk, it's 7 PM. I'll be here for another few hours. This will be the ninth or tenth twelve-hour day I've pulled in the past two and a half weeks... I've lost count. It'll start ramping up even more shortly... The deadline is in late June. There's a long road ahead of us.</p>
<p>I'm a little bitter about the hours and the lower pay and never having time for other things I love like ceramics and photography and going to concerts and hanging out with my friends, and I <em>love</em> what I do for a living. I love designing buildings (I'm not so wild about designing joist after joist after joist that are mostly the same... but it's one of the things you have to do in order to get to design buildings) but if I didn't love what I do, I'd seriously hate my life.</p>
<p>There's a fine line, brahmin etc... Yes, you need to be practical. Yes, you need to be able to pay your bills and you need to not have to worry about money. But you need to also choose something that you love to do. Not just something you're vaguely interested in because it seems like a good compromise between money and interest in what you do.</p>
<p>The best advice anybody ever gave me was that when choosing a career, follow your heart and not your pocketbook, and the money will follow. The best person I know to point at as a perfect example of this is my husband, who, just before he chose where to go to college, decided to switch his major from engineering (his <em>whole family</em> are engineers...) to music composition. He's just finishing up his doctorate, but in the past year, he's presented papers in Copenhagen (on the university's tab-- my university had to be talked into flying me to <em>Miami</em>) and has had three orchestras play some of his works... If past performance is an indicator of future achievement, he's quite possibly going to end up earning more than I do as a university professor.</p>
<p>Do what you're good at and what you love. If you're passionate about it, and if you're hardworking and you work at expanding your network and if you're careful and you have a plan, and if you do everything it takes to succeed, you'll end up with a career that you love and one that will compensate you for your passion.</p>
<p>The people I was more speaking to in my earlier post, though, were the ones who didn't really like engineering all that much but figure it pays pretty good salaries right off the bat and that it would be a prudent career move, but the choice is ultimately yours, and if you want to try to strike a balance between a sure-thing financially-sound career move and something that you're interested in. Many before you have done that. I'd personally say go for what you love and that the money will follow... That sort of leap takes some serious cajones, though... It's a gamble.</p>