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Of course business is competitive and you don't disclose competitive information to your competitors. That's just common sense.
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<p>And similarly, I am arguing that it is common sense to not disclose full information to your employer, because they might use it against you. I'm quite certain that we can both come up with numerous examples where this has happened. </p>
<p>Again, to give you my quite simple one that I mentioned before: consider the middle-aged woman who makes herself up to look much younger when she interviews, because she is trying to avoid age discrimination. Is that wrong? One could certainly argue that she is "deceiving" employers about her real age. But of course if they knew her real age, they might not hire her. </p>
<p>Of course one could argue that she should just go find a employer where age discrimination doesn't occur. Yeah, well, that's nice to say in theory, but she has to live in the real world where she has bills to pay right now . Hence, she can't always be waiting around for the perfect employer to show up. Sometimes you have to take a job at an employer who you don't really like and don't really trust because you need the money. She has to be pragmatic. </p>
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However, the employment relationship that you have with your direct supervisor, the individual, is special and needs to be based on mutual trust for both of you to be successful.
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<p>Uh, why? Supervisors lie to (or at least deceive) their employees all the time. For example, I know plenty of managers who suspected that layoffs were coming but didn't tell any of their people. </p>
<p>Again, this is business, whether like it or not. That's how business works. </p>
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If they lie to you, you should find a better opportunity, and if you're good enough you can. If he/she doesn't trust you, you either won't get the job, or if they lose their trust in you after you have the job, don't expect mentoring, promotions, raises or even good assignments with increasing responsibility. Put yourself in your supervisor's shoes. Why would you give an assignment that you are ultimately responsible for to someone that you don't trust. Why would you invest your time to develop somebody that you don't trust. You may not get fired but you would get marginalized; it would not be the kind of situation that you want.
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<p>And that's precisely the fundamental problem I have with your analysis. I've said it before, I'll say it again. The act of employment is a business relationship, nothing more, nothing less. Your supervisor is not your friend. Your employees are not your friends. They are effectively your business partners. </p>
<p>After all, just think of it this way. Sprint Nextel just announced 4000 layoffs. Yahoo announced 1000 layoffs. Is this what people do to their friends? I don't know about anybody else, but I certainly don't go around hurting the lifestyles of any of my friends, which is what layoffs will do. But that happens all the time in business. Business is business. </p>
<p>ClassicRockerDad, what you seem to be talking about is a world where supervisors really are your friends. And sure, in such a world, I would agree with you that you should behave completely truthfully at all times to your friends. But I would then also expect reciprocity. For example, it would then not be unreasonable for me to expect to never be laid off. Why not? Like I said, friends don't go around hurting their friends livelihoods, right? But I can't expect that in the context of business. </p>
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Is it just me or is Sakky's really trying to make his/her degree from HES looks like one from Harvard College?
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<p>Ah, here we go with the ad-hominem attacks. Since when did I say that I had a HES degree? Please point to the quote where I said so. Oh, can't do it, can you?</p>
<p>I am simply saying that I see nothing wrong with somebody who has such a degree in calling themselves a fully-fledged Harvard graduate. They are. </p>
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"You are not required to be completely truthful to companies"</p>
<p>Are you kidding me? Wow! This is completely unethical. You will get fire for this kind of thing. Is deception your kind of thing Sakky?
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<p>Again, why? Are companies being completely truthful to me? Is it really true that if I drink Budweiser beer, that I will immediately be surrounded by beautiful models in bikinis? Hey, after all, that's what always happens in the commercials, and companies always tell us the complete truth in commercials, right? Oh wait, maybe not. </p>
<p>If companies are not telling you the complete truth, then why are you required to do so? That's business. </p>
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If someone asked you where you got your undergraduate degree from, and you replied, "I went to Harvard," that implies Harvard College, and not HES. Saying "I went to Harvard," in this context qualified as a deceive because the common understanding of an undergraduate degree from Harvard is Harvard College and not HES. This does mean Harvard College has better education than HES, but it's how people understand, "I went to Harvard," and it needs further extrapolation if you're graduate of HES instead of Harvard College.
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<p>Uh, it doesn't "need" any further extrapolation, just like advertising rarely includes further extrapolation. Again, I don't see any asterisk or any other sort of extrapolation that says that I actually won't be surrounded by beautiful models in bikinis if I drink beer. </p>
<p>The point is, you are not required to state the full truth within a business context. Business success is based on the control of information. Just like the woman I mentioned above does not want to reveal (with good reason) her real age to employers because she is afraid it may be used against her. </p>
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Indeed, that is why nearly every large company out here requires an applicant to complete their own internal employment application;
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<p>Actually, I've worked with several large employers, and not one has ever asked me to complete an internal employment application. Nor have most of my friends who have also worked at large companies. (Granted, a few of them did).</p>
<p>But, more importantly, the vast majority of employers are not large companies. Most companies out there are small-to-medium sized. Many of the jobs they offer are very good ones.</p>