You might want to read this thread to temper your expectations:
There are many wonderful colleges in the US that would welcome a homeschooled/unschooled international student who can show some qualifications like a SAT or ACT score. The schools you listed are just super selective about who they accept. You need more than a letter of recommendation. If you want to tell us more about what you want to study and how much your family can afford we can make some suggestions for other schools that might work for you.